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Mrs Eleflump
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...enjoy telling you how once you have them, your life is over?
I know several people who do nothing but moan about their children. They never have anything good to say about being a parent. Obviously not all the parents I know are like this, but a pretty high proportion are.
I mean, I get it, having kids is tough (okay, I probably don't get it, since I don't have any yet, but you know what I mean when I say this?), you lose sleep, you never stop worrying about them, they do things that drive you nuts, etc etc.
But if they're really that awful, why do people keep having them?!
Why do people seem to get such a kick out of telling hopeful future parents all the horror stories? Do they see it as passing on parently wisdom? Do they want to warn us off ruining our lives? Are they just being evil?
Do they really think that we haven't thought about the disruption and how our lives will change once we have a LO? I know you don't know how it is until you've done it, but every child is different so there's no way to know in advance what your hurdles are going to be, even if you've already had 10 kids!
I have health problems that could quite seriously impact on my baby's health, so I've given it a lot of thought, whether it's the right thing to do from that point of view and also from the financial/career/lifestyle angles, and we still think having a baby is the right thing for us. Why are so many people sure they know better than us?
Urgh, rant over...this just really quite upsets me I'm really not looking forward to the"everyone's opinion being shoved down my throat" part of pregnancy and parenting.
I know several people who do nothing but moan about their children. They never have anything good to say about being a parent. Obviously not all the parents I know are like this, but a pretty high proportion are.
I mean, I get it, having kids is tough (okay, I probably don't get it, since I don't have any yet, but you know what I mean when I say this?), you lose sleep, you never stop worrying about them, they do things that drive you nuts, etc etc.
But if they're really that awful, why do people keep having them?!
Why do people seem to get such a kick out of telling hopeful future parents all the horror stories? Do they see it as passing on parently wisdom? Do they want to warn us off ruining our lives? Are they just being evil?
Do they really think that we haven't thought about the disruption and how our lives will change once we have a LO? I know you don't know how it is until you've done it, but every child is different so there's no way to know in advance what your hurdles are going to be, even if you've already had 10 kids!
I have health problems that could quite seriously impact on my baby's health, so I've given it a lot of thought, whether it's the right thing to do from that point of view and also from the financial/career/lifestyle angles, and we still think having a baby is the right thing for us. Why are so many people sure they know better than us?
Urgh, rant over...this just really quite upsets me I'm really not looking forward to the"everyone's opinion being shoved down my throat" part of pregnancy and parenting.