Why? Just a little sookie vent..

[Mammatotwo]

I know I have so much to be thankful for, I have 2 healthy children already and am very grateful...but WHY is it so easy for some people to get pregnant and others take months and months, which leads to years, miscarriage after miscarriage. How is it some people can get knocked up 6 weeks after giving birth but others take every vitamin, time everything right, track their cycles and still not fall pregnant. How is it people say relax, it happened for me, have a few drinks oopps!
I think I am pretty relaxed. Yes it is on my mind. Plus I fell pregnant with my DD2 on a really stressful month, moved house, DH changed job, we moved from everything we knew, friends and family and fell pregnant. So I am not a huge believer in relax it will happen anyway.
I do not begrudge anyone falling pregnant, but I just wonder why some people find it so easy and others struggle. I guess I am jealous more of how easy it is than their actual pregnancy. I just wish I could be one of those people who say " Dh just looks at me and we fall pregnant" Big sigh!
Big hugs to us all in here.

ETA I hope this is the right place to post. I do not really fit into the TTC folder. We have been TTC for 18months and have had 2 m/c. I know I have 2 children already and hope this does not offend anyone. I just feel a little lost where to post my thoughts. Thanks xx

 

[purplesparkle]

it is hard just don't give up

 

[groovyjem]

i totally understand how u feel ... this journey is so hard and at times feels so lonely as there is none for me other than this forum to speak to who understand how hard it is.

i have no words unfortunately which will make it easier to understand but hope we all get our bfp soon

 

[Soili]

Same here, I often just get jealous of how easy it is for some, not so much of the pregnancy or the baby itself. It's just one of those things in life that is just very unfair and absolutely random. The couple you heard bragging about easy it was with their first might have the most dreadful experience trying for number 2.

I do wonder how come it's a piece of cake for most animals, but so difficult for humans. You never hear about childless penguin couple or something All of them lay their eggs on right time, no one wonders around without a purpose while others are sitting on eggs

 

[readyformore]

I wish I knew why it was easy for some and not for others.

I wish I knew why I had to go through infertility . . . .twice. . . . when I can provide for, care for, and love more children.

I wish I knew why I have this desire to have more children. I wish it would go away. It stalks me to the point of insanity. . . .

I hope it happens for us soon.

 

[Mammatotwo]

Thank you guys for your responses. I hate that we have to struggle with something that should be natural and easy.
Thanks for letting me vent my frustrations and for understanding.

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[Armywife84]

Thats's the rhetorical question isn't it? I wish somebody would come up with an answer!! Lol.

I get what you mean about the TTC thread..I bounced back and forth from there to here. Then just decided that I didn't fit in with them because I was already past the standard year in TTC.