we didn't with my little girl, and i loved the surprise of it. Was asking dh the other day if he'd want to find out this time and he said that he would like to know this time round. His reasons for wanting to know are that this baby will be our last one, and he would like to know what it is so as he can get over the disappointment if it's a girl, and be happy on the day he/she is born! Charming! He didn't mean it nastily, he just said that if we have another girl, he's never going to get his wee boy, and so will be disappointed at that, more so than having another girl, iyswim! So, i think we will be finding out. Anyone else?