wish I felt pregnant!

[xxbeckyxx]

I'm driving myself mad looking on google at mmc! I know I shouldn't do it as it makes me feel worse but I just still don't feel even a little pregnant! I'm terrified that at my scan on the 30th I'm going to be told bad news. My best friend is pregnant and another very close friend found out she is too today, I'm really happy for them but am scared what will happen if the worst happens just can't shake this bad feeling off I'm pretty pesamisitic when I'm not pg lol x

 

[gogosteady]

Hi hun, dont worry to much i have had no symptoms what so ever. I have had a few scans and all is well. I also have a doppler and have been lucky to find heartbeat already and heard baby this morning. Some of us are just lucky and im sure in a few more weeks when we start getting a bump it will feel more real.
xxx

 

[xxbeckyxx]

Thanks I have been tempted to buy a doppler but I think it will make me worse if I can't find the hb congratulations on your bfp I see you have been ttc a long time. Xx

 

[gogosteady]

I was like that, i got my doppler at 9 weeks and couldnt find it, so started to panic. It can get an obsession, but was just so lucky to hear it 3 days ago, i know lots of women dont.
I see your just down the road from me xxx

 

[cloud9]

congrats on your bfp!
im the same only a few symptoms here and there when they disappear i think the worst ive had mmc sept 2009 and sept 2010 my best advice would be to stay away from google its more hassle than its worth i scared myself last night after working all day on my feet i came home and soaked my feet in a foot bath and slathered peppermint cream all over them only to realise there was peppermint essential oil in both which is not recommended in early pregnancy. i freaked myself out googling and never got any sleep finally fell asleep at 2am!! even though im sure the amounts in each would've been really low. there was so much conflicting information about it online.
sure all will be fine good luck

 

[LittleChick4]

Hi Hun,

I wouldn't worry I was exactly like you, and now I have hurrendous morning sickness but through out the whole day!! Sore nipples, absolutley shattered. I now wish I didn't have any! Don't worry- once you have had your scan you will be reassurred x

 

[BeverleyLN]

Try and stay away from the dreaded google it can drive you insane!
I think that if it's getting to you maybe pay for a early scan? Baby bond has lots of locations around the UK and I bet they could see you within a couple of days.... I know once I get my sticky bean I'll be getting a early scan... Can't put a price of peace of mind x

 

[xxbeckyxx]

Gogosteady- where abouts are you?
Thanks everyone I know I'm probably just worrying about nothing! I think because its took me 3 years to get my first bfp I keep thinking I can't possibly be lucky enough for everything to be ok first time and if I think the worst then if I hear the worst it won't be so hard to take. Congrats to you all on your and here's to a very happy and very healthy 9 months!! Xx

 

[gogosteady]

Im in Stowmarket xxx

 

[BERDC99]

I am also scared of having a mmc. I try not to google it, but it is hard some times. My next scan is not until Feb. 1. I have been feeling better for the last week yet I am still tired.

 

[lusterleaf]

i know what you mean, besides my clothes getting tighter and sore boobs i don't really feel pregnant either. i can't wait till my next sono so I can see my baby again! I always worry!

 

[mazzalooo]

try not to worry... i had this problem and i became addicted to checking things out! trust me i was worse off in the end i had a mc.. the doctors told me because i was stressing so much it made a massive affect on the baby try not to worry!!
xxx

 

[CarliCareBear]

i am so sorry that you're worried, but it seems like even you know you are just worrying for no reason. take a deep breath and relax. be thankful for what you've already be given and be careful what you wish for (it's one of those things where if you did have loads of symptoms you'd probably be begging for the opposite). i'm sure everything is just fine.

and i mean no offense by this but these sort of threads make me freaking insane since i've gotten HG. i am literally in tears everyday wishing my symptoms would stop. just goes to show how different pregnancy is for everyone.

please, if you have any time take a look at these, it will make you feel a whole lot better about your lack of symptoms and maybe give you some perspective:
https://www.helpher.org/mothers/testimonials.php

i hope you feel better and can put your mind at ease!