Wishing, wanting, waiting.....TTC for a year PLUS!

[honeybee28]

Awww Julia, I hate it when my dh goes away too! Defo get one of your friends to come and stay, might help take your mind off it!

Have you been to work since that training night thing? How's it going?

My studying is a bit slow. I seem to be having a lot of breaks from it...!!
xxxx

 

[tryforbaby2]

I went in for some training yesterday for a few hours. So not coordinated there yet and I am already annoyed that I am already getting asked to work other peoples shifts. I specifically wrote down the times and days I am ONLY available due to Hailey in school, and our business and my volunteering and I am still being asked to work odd hours and days I have not put down that I am available!
PLUS, I havent gotten paid frommy Unemployment because I worked 4 frickin hours.....so they didnt pay me for a weeks worth!
Just annoyed....
I want my friend to come but she has alot of financial issues going on right now, so we will see. She is letting me know today. If she is we will watch Daria (the old MTV cartoon of the 90's) and play Wii with Hailey and drink Sangria all weekend. If not, Hailey and I will snuggle in bed all weekend and enjoy our time together. She's a snuggler. I always say if she could jump back in she would!
Another study day eh??? BnB has gotten you distracted!!! CD6 for you? Is af gone? Whats the plan so far for this cycle??

 

[honeybee28]

that's so annoying about your work!! Mind you, every job I've had where ive been part time, they've always done that to me. They used to try to make me skip college to go to work lol.

ahhhh well either of those options sounds like a nice weekend to me!!

I'm CD6 today, yeah witch has gone. I have my acupuncture on saturday yey! and my appointment at the infertility clinic on 5th november, so that's before the witch is due again. So I'm pretty chilled out this cycle with those 2 appointments booked. feel like it's kinda out of my hands or something. Will just try to bd every 2 or 3 days I think, maybe a little more around when i get my positive opk yey.

Has the witch left you yet? how are you feeling about your plan?

xxx

 

[tryforbaby2]

I think my plan might do the trick for me this time. The month I got pg I only dtd two days before my smiley face, the day of my smiley and the day after my smiley, thats it, nothing else before and nothing within 5 days after. If I have another 32-33 day cycle like last month, maybe I can track it better than my 40+ day cycles. I wish I had a short cycle like Soph!
So I am going to dtd (hopefully,now this is all wishful thinking not a guarantee!) CD16 CD17 CD18 CD19 and maybe CD20.....thats only if I O CD18 or CD19. I am going to try not to wear him out leading up to until RIGHT BEFORE O and a day or so after, then relaxed again following. He has to start taking his ZINC again and his vitamins, along with me taking my vitamins again, drinking more water and grapefruit juice.
I think I am slightly sick as I have had the 'poops' since af started!!! (tmi-lol)
How is your studying going?
This has to be the cycle for you honey, because when I knew I had my RE appointment and I relaxed and figured they'll fix it, thats when it happened. I hope so for you!!!
Your plan sounds like chilled smep!

 

[honeybee28]

I wish I had short cycles like soph too!!! I'm on 35 day cycles at the moment, it sucks!!
lol, sorry you have the poops sweetie, I always get that on cd1.
yeah chilled smep I think. I like your plan too!!

It has to be OUR cycle, all of us. Can't believe how long this has been going on for. I honestly thought when we started ttc that I would be holding a baby on christmas day. Now I'm going to count myself so blessed if i even have a bfp by christmas.
anyway enough of that.

Is everyone having a good day?xxx

 

[Jaimie2Eyes]

Stupid BnB just ate my post! Grr - hate it when that happens.

HoneyBee - totally hear ya on the Christmas thing. I'm gonna be hella bummed if we don't see some BFPs by then. I remember the Christmas before we started trying, thinking to myself that we would likely have a baby by the next Christmas.

Julia - I'm sorry the folks at the shop aren't respecting the times that you can't work. It really shows a lack of consideration for you and puts you in a tough spot when you have to say no. I hope your friend gets to visit with you! That sounds like fun.

Soph - glad you like co-inky dink ; P I saw the best tourism commercial for Australia last night - made me want to go so bad! It was this very cute rhyming song with lots of koalas and kangaroos. Did I tell you that my Hubby spent a month hiking in the blue gum forest? He bought a didj down there and is quite good at playing it.

 

[honeybee28]

you say co-inky dink, I say co-inky doink. haha. I like that word doik doik. DOINK. haha.

yeah we HAVE to have some bfps by christmas. we just have to.
Jaimie whats the deal with you this cycle, do you do a test or wait it out? I so hope it works for you. But if it doesn't, how many cycles of it do the recommend that you do?

Does anyone know much on the acupuncture versus reflexology debate? Which is meant to be most effective for ttc?

xxx

 

[tryforbaby2]

I wish I had short cycles like soph too!!! I'm on 35 day cycles at the moment, it sucks!!
lol, sorry you have the poops sweetie, I always get that on cd1.
yeah chilled smep I think. I like your plan too!!

It has to be OUR cycle, all of us. Can't believe how long this has been going on for. I honestly thought when we started ttc that I would be holding a baby on christmas day. Now I'm going to count myself so blessed if i even have a bfp by christmas.
anyway enough of that.

Is everyone having a good day?xxx

I normally get it on CD1 also but not this long!!!
It has to be our cycle, and my final for the time being....no more mc's, chemicals or evaps. Sick of it! Would be quite lovely to wrap up a pee stick with a positive for our dh's .

Stupid BnB just ate my post! Grr - hate it when that happens.

HoneyBee - totally hear ya on the Christmas thing. I'm gonna be hella bummed if we don't see some BFPs by then. I remember the Christmas before we started trying, thinking to myself that we would likely have a baby by the next Christmas.

Julia - I'm sorry the folks at the shop aren't respecting the times that you can't work. It really shows a lack of consideration for you and puts you in a tough spot when you have to say no. I hope your friend gets to visit with you! That sounds like fun.

Soph - glad you like co-inky dink ; P I saw the best tourism commercial for Australia last night - made me want to go so bad! It was this very cute rhyming song with lots of koalas and kangaroos. Did I tell you that my Hubby spent a month hiking in the blue gum forest? He bought a didj down there and is quite good at playing it.

Thanks!! Where are you at on your cycle? Your ticker didnt show up for me so I cannot tell. Do you think about testing while you are waiting???

you say co-inky dink, I say co-inky doink. haha. I like that word doik doik. DOINK. haha.

yeah we HAVE to have some bfps by christmas. we just have to.
Jaimie whats the deal with you this cycle, do you do a test or wait it out? I so hope it works for you. But if it doesn't, how many cycles of it do the recommend that you do?

Does anyone know much on the acupuncture versus reflexology debate? Which is meant to be most effective for ttc?

xxx

Doink! I think of his Dink!

Havent done research on either, sorry I cannot help ya there but Soph probably can!!!

 

[honeybee28]

hahahahaha!! doink. There are sooooooo many different expressions for having sex arent there? What's the weirdest you've heard? I think the weirdest ones I've heard are splacking, and also skibidy bip. Weird! What did you do last night? ah we skibidy bipped. You what!! (heard both those from The American btw!)

 

[Annamumof2]

well it will be a merical if i get pregnant this month... hes hardly touched me which is annoying as hell as he wants this as much as i do

i have no idea what to do... and its my birthday Tuesday coming

 

[Jaimie2Eyes]

Ah ha! So that is where this doink business comes from, eh? You two are hilarious. I think "jumping so and so's bones" is a pretty funny saying for sex. I haven't heard someone say that since middle school though!

The receptionist at the fertility clinic told me that it was my job to call her in two weeks with a positive pregnancy test - they they'll do a beta to confirm. I certainly hope I can fulfill my duty! I'm waiting till the 25th to test with MyTurn though. By then I'll be properly late. Good golly it would be nice to be late enough to test : )

Honey - the fact that you met The American at odd hours on a gambling table helps to explain his expressions for sex. I've never heard either of those! I think he is bonkers.

Bonk diddly doink!

 

[honeybee28]

haha, he was a bit crazy.

yeah jumping someone's bones IS funny!!

omg, imagine, you and jill. Wouldnt that be the sweetest thing?

xxx

 

[Waitng4Baby#1]

Posting & running again - just home, flat is full of boxes, we are moving tomorrow to our new house hooray! May not have internet access for ages so will just be trying to get on with my iPhone so may not be on for a while.

hope to see lots of BFPs when I get back....

 

[SquirrelGirl]

MEH.... one of my fav shows is suddenly getting into an infertility story line. booooooo. she apparently has a 'hostile uterus'. This after she had a miscarriage in the season finale. Thanks Grey's Anatomy. Just what I want to watch....

 

[Jaimie2Eyes]

Aw! Kootchy! I'm really sorry about that. I'm watching Baby Mama tonight for some weird reason....

 

[honeybee28]

a hostile uterus? hmmmm. What does that even mean? Does it shout at the spermies or something?!

I watched a programme the other night, private practice i think. that was about a sarogate mom. very sad.

xx

 

[soph77]

Soph - glad you like co-inky dink ; P I saw the best tourism commercial for Australia last night - made me want to go so bad! It was this very cute rhyming song with lots of koalas and kangaroos. Did I tell you that my Hubby spent a month hiking in the blue gum forest? He bought a didj down there and is quite good at playing it.

Yeah, I love that tourism commercial!!! I've watched it and just think it is so Aussie!

 

[Annamumof2]

hey girls has anyone watched footballers wives before? i have been sat in watching all the seasons and i can't believe i missed some of it when it was on the TV

 

[tryforbaby2]

hahahahaha!! doink. There are sooooooo many different expressions for having sex arent there? What's the weirdest you've heard? I think the weirdest ones I've heard are splacking, and also skibidy bip. Weird! What did you do last night? ah we skibidy bipped. You what!! (heard both those from The American btw!)

I have never heard those expressions before!!! I am a dirty talker to my husband so I just say "wanna F me?" Dont worry, I do not have a big potty mouth to anyone else! How about Banging! Gettin' down, roughin' it up, getting it in!! Ugh! I cant control myself!!! hahahaha

well it will be a merical if i get pregnant this month... hes hardly touched me which is annoying as hell as he wants this as much as i do

i have no idea what to do... and its my birthday Tuesday coming

Try hard to seduce him and play sexy. If thats a no go, ask him what the hell he wants.

P.S. Lock the doors so Skye doesnt pop on in!!! hehe (maybe some soft music too)

Happy UPCOMING Birthday!!!

Ah ha! So that is where this doink business comes from, eh? You two are hilarious. I think "jumping so and so's bones" is a pretty funny saying for sex. I haven't heard someone say that since middle school though!

The receptionist at the fertility clinic told me that it was my job to call her in two weeks with a positive pregnancy test - they they'll do a beta to confirm. I certainly hope I can fulfill my duty! I'm waiting till the 25th to test with MyTurn though. By then I'll be properly late. Good golly it would be nice to be late enough to test : )

Honey - the fact that you met The American at odd hours on a gambling table helps to explain his expressions for sex. I've never heard either of those! I think he is bonkers.

Bonk diddly doink!

Jumping someones bones is funny and I have heard that quite a bit before. And the receptionist is right! In a week or less when you have your bfp, give her a call and post on bnb and let us know the great news!!! I can never wait to be late to test!

Posting & running again - just home, flat is full of boxes, we are moving tomorrow to our new house hooray! May not have internet access for ages so will just be trying to get on with my iPhone so may not be on for a while.

hope to see lots of BFPs when I get back....

Have a good time moving! :wave: Its a great time to throw things away we dont need and reclean everything! Hopefully we all will have bfps when you get back,including your's!!!

MEH.... one of my fav shows is suddenly getting into an infertility story line. booooooo. she apparently has a 'hostile uterus'. This after she had a miscarriage in the season finale. Thanks Grey's Anatomy. Just what I want to watch....

I seen that. She acted non-chalant about it I think, like it just happened and that was it. I cry almost every single episode of grey's. My huge favorite is deperate housewives!!! I have missed all the new episodes except the first due to work, but I am determined to see them!

hey girls has anyone watched footballers wives before? i have been sat in watching all the seasons and i can't believe i missed some of it when it was on the TV

I have never seen that show before, sorry hun!

AFM, today is CD6 and some stuff still at cervix so hopefully tomorrow all will be gone. I am hoping for an early O that I can catch and a early bfp. I hate waiting. My friend is not coming down, her mother is in the hospital, getting better now. Hubby is already gone and Hailey is at school for a few more hours then time to pick her up. I am sure I will be on here lots this weekend.

Have a great weekend everyone!!!

 

[Annamumof2]

hahahahaha!! doink. There are sooooooo many different expressions for having sex arent there? What's the weirdest you've heard? I think the weirdest ones I've heard are splacking, and also skibidy bip. Weird! What did you do last night? ah we skibidy bipped. You what!! (heard both those from The American btw!)

I have never heard those expressions before!!! I am a dirty talker to my husband so I just say "wanna F me?" Dont worry, I do not have a big potty mouth to anyone else! How about Banging! Gettin' down, roughin' it up, getting it in!! Ugh! I cant control myself!!! hahahaha

well it will be a merical if i get pregnant this month... hes hardly touched me which is annoying as hell as he wants this as much as i do

i have no idea what to do... and its my birthday Tuesday coming

Try hard to seduce him and play sexy. If thats a no go, ask him what the hell he wants.

P.S. Lock the doors so Skye doesnt pop on in!!! hehe (maybe some soft music too)

Happy UPCOMING Birthday!!!

Ah ha! So that is where this doink business comes from, eh? You two are hilarious. I think "jumping so and so's bones" is a pretty funny saying for sex. I haven't heard someone say that since middle school though!

The receptionist at the fertility clinic told me that it was my job to call her in two weeks with a positive pregnancy test - they they'll do a beta to confirm. I certainly hope I can fulfill my duty! I'm waiting till the 25th to test with MyTurn though. By then I'll be properly late. Good golly it would be nice to be late enough to test : )

Honey - the fact that you met The American at odd hours on a gambling table helps to explain his expressions for sex. I've never heard either of those! I think he is bonkers.

Bonk diddly doink!

Jumping someones bones is funny and I have heard that quite a bit before. And the receptionist is right! In a week or less when you have your bfp, give her a call and post on bnb and let us know the great news!!! I can never wait to be late to test!

Posting & running again - just home, flat is full of boxes, we are moving tomorrow to our new house hooray! May not have internet access for ages so will just be trying to get on with my iPhone so may not be on for a while.

hope to see lots of BFPs when I get back....

Have a good time moving! :wave: Its a great time to throw things away we dont need and reclean everything! Hopefully we all will have bfps when you get back,including your's!!!

MEH.... one of my fav shows is suddenly getting into an infertility story line. booooooo. she apparently has a 'hostile uterus'. This after she had a miscarriage in the season finale. Thanks Grey's Anatomy. Just what I want to watch....

I seen that. She acted non-chalant about it I think, like it just happened and that was it. I cry almost every single episode of grey's. My huge favorite is deperate housewives!!! I have missed all the new episodes except the first due to work, but I am determined to see them!

hey girls has anyone watched footballers wives before? i have been sat in watching all the seasons and i can't believe i missed some of it when it was on the TV

I have never seen that show before, sorry hun!

AFM, today is CD6 and some stuff still at cervix so hopefully tomorrow all will be gone. I am hoping for an early O that I can catch and a early bfp. I hate waiting. My friend is not coming down, her mother is in the hospital, getting better now. Hubby is already gone and Hailey is at school for a few more hours then time to pick her up. I am sure I will be on here lots this weekend.

Have a great weekend everyone!!!

if you take a look at my journal it will tell you i finaly got it in the end.. and skye stayed in bed sleeping till this morning and it was wonderful at last lol.. told andy i want it again tonight and tomorrow and he says im gettin it twice for my birthday