BrollyDolly
Mummy of 1
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I am at my wits end and I don't know what to do!
She's almost 4 week's old and won't settle unless she's in my arms, as soon as put her down she screams and then carries on until I pick her up. At night she wakes at 3am and then wont sleep again until 7am. I have tried everything...warming the bedding, transferring my scent, hand on chest, white noise, shhh & pat, laying her on her belly, driving in the car...EVERYTHING!!! She has infacol for colic and is also on SMA staydown for reflux. I always make sure she gets wind up before I try and get her to sleep but the only way she will calm down and sleep will be in my arms.
OH, friends and family keep telling me I need to just leave her to cry it out, it won't harm her but I'm not too sure about that technique as I've read a lot of arguments for and against that method and I don't want to seem like a bad mum.
I just don't have a clue what to do, I'm on my own during the week as OH works away and I'm mentally and physically drained thanks to a total of 6 hours sleep all week.
Any advice, tips, suggestions...should I leave her to just cry? Should I just man up and tell myself it won't last?? I don't have a clue what I'm doing and feel like a total failure who has a child that hates her Xx
She's almost 4 week's old and won't settle unless she's in my arms, as soon as put her down she screams and then carries on until I pick her up. At night she wakes at 3am and then wont sleep again until 7am. I have tried everything...warming the bedding, transferring my scent, hand on chest, white noise, shhh & pat, laying her on her belly, driving in the car...EVERYTHING!!! She has infacol for colic and is also on SMA staydown for reflux. I always make sure she gets wind up before I try and get her to sleep but the only way she will calm down and sleep will be in my arms.
OH, friends and family keep telling me I need to just leave her to cry it out, it won't harm her but I'm not too sure about that technique as I've read a lot of arguments for and against that method and I don't want to seem like a bad mum.
I just don't have a clue what to do, I'm on my own during the week as OH works away and I'm mentally and physically drained thanks to a total of 6 hours sleep all week.
Any advice, tips, suggestions...should I leave her to just cry? Should I just man up and tell myself it won't last?? I don't have a clue what I'm doing and feel like a total failure who has a child that hates her Xx