Worried about going from 2 children to 3?

[WanaBaba]

Hi I got my very unexpected bfp yesterday! And I'm still in shock and freaking out about having three kids!! I'm worried I won't be able to cope! My youngest is 19 months. Anyone else feeling this way?

 

[brunette&bubs]

I feel this way moving from 1 to 2!!! And my son will be nearly 6 by the time this one is born!!!

I think it's totally normal to feel this way and it may bring on anxiety having two very young ones but people do it all the time!!

Congrats!!!!

 

[mummof1]

I'm a bit scared as well !
My boys are SO busy and my youngest is still very much a momma suck, it will be an adjustment but it will also be so lovely to give them a sibling I'm excited and scared lol

 

[ElmoBumpToBe]

You will be just fine Hun remember in 8 months your youngest will be a very different child! I had 2 boys, my youngest was 10 months when I found out I was expecting my third. I needed a double pushchair, both where in nappies and my middle boy had learning difficulties as well. It wasn't "easy" but you just adapt my youngest is now 3 and we are expecting our 4th.

Congratulations! My youngest two are thick as thieves they are best buds you will love it xx

 

[Wombat]

My oldest are 8 and 6 and for us it's a big step starting it all over again.
But I'm actually looking forward it.

When my boys were little, it was hard. But then it gets easier! Don't worry - you will manage!

PS: get all the help you can. If you can afford hiring help for at least once a week - do it!

 

[Midnight_Fairy]

I found it hard in the way I only had 2 hands and 3 kids but you do adjust xx

 

[WanaBaba]

Thanks ladies. I'm starting to feel a little excited if not still scared!!

 

[smileyfaces]

I'm nervous but I know I will cope. You just have to don't you!

 

[Jewls]

Hi I got my very unexpected bfp yesterday! And I'm still in shock and freaking out about having three kids!! I'm worried I won't be able to cope! My youngest is 19 months. Anyone else feeling this way?

Yes me in terrified in still excited but question myself daily in how I will cope my eldest are 4&2 x

 

[Katt36]

I am expecting my fourth! Mom of three boys! Let's compare lots of notes! Congrats!

 

[Katt36]

You will be just fine Hun remember in 8 months your youngest will be a very different child! I had 2 boys, my youngest was 10 months when I found out I was expecting my third. I needed a double pushchair, both where in nappies and my middle boy had learning difficulties as well. It wasn't "easy" but you just adapt my youngest is now 3 and we are expecting our 4th.

Congratulations! My youngest two are thick as thieves they are best buds you will love it xx

Do you have all boys? I have three boys and expecting my fourth as I got a BFP yesterday! I feel oddly ok about the fourth! Almost like piece of cake lol, what's one more.

 

[ElmoBumpToBe]

I am expecting my fourth! Mom of three boys! Let's compare lots of notes! Congrats!

Me too!!! How old are they? Are you presuming you will have another little boy like me?

My boys are 8 in April, 4 and 3 xx

 

[ElmoBumpToBe]

You will be just fine Hun remember in 8 months your youngest will be a very different child! I had 2 boys, my youngest was 10 months when I found out I was expecting my third. I needed a double pushchair, both where in nappies and my middle boy had learning difficulties as well. It wasn't "easy" but you just adapt my youngest is now 3 and we are expecting our 4th.

Congratulations! My youngest two are thick as thieves they are best buds you will love it xx

Do you have all boys? I have three boys and expecting my fourth as I got a BFP yesterday! I feel oddly ok about the fourth! Almost like piece of cake lol, what's one more.

Funny but that's just how I feel haha maybe we are being naive? Lol I felt like going from 2 to 3 was a big adjustment but more because they where close together, where as like you say, this time I'm not worried? Maybe it's because it's been a truggle to get pregnant with this little miracle so I'm not letting anything faze me as I'm still in a loved up baby haze

 

[sn0wbunnie]

I'm also going from 2 to 3. I am worried about my almost 1 year old because she is very very very attached to me. Hopefully, by the time this baby is born, she will have eased up a little bit. I mean, I LOVE the fact that she loves me so much, but I can foresee a lot of jealously.

 

[Irish Baby]

I found going from 1 to 2 harder then going from 2 to 3.. I have a 1 year old, 4 year old and 5 year old, I think because the first two were so close in age it was that bit harder..

we're trying for number 4 soon