Mummafrog
New FTM to baby girl
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Hello Ladies, I could use some reassurance..
I got a strong positive Friday morning, making me 5 weeks +2 today and me and OH are just ecstatic We were not ttc but it wasn't much of a surprise either hehe.
I'm so happy to be pregnant and I've wanted it for so long.. the thing is I was not planning to get pregnant until I had lost some weight, I think my BMI is somewhere around 37.. I'm 5"6' and a size 18-20.
I just read the NHS page about being overweight and pregnant and it was very scary, even though I knew the information on the page seeing it all laid out just made me feel like this is not going to be easy..
I'm worried that my weight will be the main focus of my antenatal care and the Midwives etc will just go on about it and that's all I will be able to think about..
Also I have always dreamt of a home birth and I'm scared they will be very unsupportive because of my weight.
Has anyone else had a homebirth and been overweight? Did you have to have a private Midwife?
Thanks for reading, looking forward to hearing your experiences
I got a strong positive Friday morning, making me 5 weeks +2 today and me and OH are just ecstatic We were not ttc but it wasn't much of a surprise either hehe.
I'm so happy to be pregnant and I've wanted it for so long.. the thing is I was not planning to get pregnant until I had lost some weight, I think my BMI is somewhere around 37.. I'm 5"6' and a size 18-20.
I just read the NHS page about being overweight and pregnant and it was very scary, even though I knew the information on the page seeing it all laid out just made me feel like this is not going to be easy..
I'm worried that my weight will be the main focus of my antenatal care and the Midwives etc will just go on about it and that's all I will be able to think about..
Also I have always dreamt of a home birth and I'm scared they will be very unsupportive because of my weight.
Has anyone else had a homebirth and been overweight? Did you have to have a private Midwife?
Thanks for reading, looking forward to hearing your experiences