Worried about my baby!

[SarahMUMMY]

Im 15 weeks pregnant and i am get really worried about my little person, recently i just havent felt pregnant.. Most people say this is normal at this stage, but i dont have a bump or anything!
Last week i had an appointment at the hospital where they tested my urine sample and checked my blood pressure, the midwife said that the urine sample was fine but never actually said anything about my blood pressure she just sent me back out into the waiting room. Previous to having my blood pressure checked a different midwife ask how far along i were and i replyed 14 weeks.. Shes looked at me in shock and gasped how i didnt look it.. And she was right! I dont look any bigger than i did 15 weeks ago!
I never actually got to talk to anyone while i was there because they were just rushing through people like they didnt care less if anyone had questions to ask. Im really worried theres something wrong with my baby would the midwife have been able to tell if something was wrong from my blood pressure and urine sample?

Xx

 

[Sealgirl]

Sorry you're feeling blue. I would imagine if your blood pressure was a problem she would have mentioned it. They never tell me, so I just ask now and the response is always "yes it's perfect, don't worry I would tell you, otherwise".

I have to say I felt the same way as you at 15 weeks, I only started looking pregnant about two weeks ago and didn't feel proper movement until about the same time.

Infact I'd say I really only feel pregnant now, but even in the last week I had a few days where I didn't feel pregnant at all. I'm a teacher and the kids haven't even noticed that I am pregnant, I think I just look a bit fat. Please don't worry! x

 

[MrsLL]

Some people aren't even showing by 24 weeks so I really wouldn't worry!!
They would tell you if anything was wrong with your blood pressure but if you are worried call your midwife or check your notes.

Your urine sample is just to check for infections.

Have you had your dating scan yet? Thats the best indication that everything is fine!!

 

[tink30]

Im 15 weeks pregnant and i am get really worried about my little person, recently i just havent felt pregnant.. Most people say this is normal at this stage, but i dont have a bump or anything!
Last week i had an appointment at the hospital where they tested my urine sample and checked my blood pressure, the midwife said that the urine sample was fine but never actually said anything about my blood pressure she just sent me back out into the waiting room. Previous to having my blood pressure checked a different midwife ask how far along i were and i replyed 14 weeks.. Shes looked at me in shock and gasped how i didnt look it.. And she was right! I dont look any bigger than i did 15 weeks ago!
I never actually got to talk to anyone while i was there because they were just rushing through people like they didnt care less if anyone had questions to ask. Im really worried theres something wrong with my baby would the midwife have been able to tell if something was wrong from my blood pressure and urine sample?

Xx

Hi hun, I just wanted to say i felt exactly the same way.. didnt see any changes.. i was terrified at my 20 week scan that the baby wouldnt be there.. but they were .. and kicks started at 20 weeks (this is my 2nd)... i wouldnt say i have a big bump.. but baby is definetly in there... you will feel more pregnant in the later end of the 20's...
the midwife would have told you if urine was bad or blood pressure.. check your maternity notes, they wrote both the readings down on there xxx I still get these days just to let you know xxx

 

[susywoosy]

I think the fact that there was no comment made about blood pressure would suggest its fine. They have a duty to tell u if u were in any danger health wise. So assume all is ok.

At 15 wks I didnt feel pregnant either. No real bump and felt normal. In a few wks you'll feel baby move and that will b reassuring for u. In meantime try not to worry. I reckon I was nearer 20 wks before I looked really pregnant so dont worry, its normal to look no different at your stage.

Relax but if u r really concerned ask midwife to check for baby's heartbeat next time u see her. I'm sure you'll feel baby move soon tho x

 

[BeachComber]

I bet everything is just fine hon. A lot of ladies don't have much of a bump until later on so try not to worry!

 

[sailorgirl1]

Yes don't worry - this is normal a lot of ladies had the same thing xxxx

 

[carlandjane]

With my first i didnt show until 20 weeks and all my symptoms vanished at 12 weeks so i felt like i was just 'normal' again, was odd but sure enough once kicks started and i grew bigger that all changed! Your just in that transition period at the moment!

 

[SarahMUMMY]

Thankyou everyone..
I had my dating scan when i was 9weeks and 6 days i have been really positive up until recently i think im just starting to worry because i cant feel anything or see anything yet.. I will be seeing my midwife next friday so hopefully she will reasure me when i fire a million questions at her
Xx

 

[Kristin52]

everything's fine! xx don't worry.