My 20 week ultrasound is at a hospital thats policy isnt to tell people gender! There is only one hospital here that guarantees they will tell you gender if they can I REALLY REALLY want to know what we are having!!! I dont think this is fair at ALL its BULLSHIT and Im so so mad about it. We are getting a 3D scan done around 30 weeks and the place we are getting it, will tell gender, but I really dont want to wait until 30 weeks and I dont want to have to pay $100 to get another scan sooner than 30 weeks. GRRRR!! Has anyone else had this issue?