My husband lost his job last week and this puts us in the sh*t basically. Anyway, I so want to give my beautiful girls all they want (it's not loads) so my and hubby have said that we'll sort them and everyone else family mums dads, granparents etc we'll leave out this year, but I feel bad and I have already bought some people,so I can't give them presents and not others can I? I have the grandparents calendars of the girls and a small picture should I get little something to go with it? Urgh I hate feeling like this, money shouldn't mean everything but it helps doesn't it? What would you do?