What I don't understand is that it is a known fact that smoking during pregnancy can harm the baby, yet people still say oh well it's her choice and her life, but it isn't just her life she's affecting it's her babies too. Doesn't the baby have a right to be brought into this world as healthy as possible? I'm sorry but if you can't sacrifice 9 months of not smoking for your baby before it's even here than maybe you should of thought of that before hand. I get so upset when people use the excuse "oh it's so hard to quit smoking" Well I smoked too and quit so I know what it's like, doesn't give you the right to still hurt your unborn child. I had a friend that quit after smoking for 30 years, if she can do it so can anyone else. My cousin's neighbor smoked and drank the whole time she was pregnant, and when her baby came he had breathing and heart problems. She cried and moaned but no one felt sorry for her, only for the baby. It's the baby that ultimately suffers for being selfish and irresponsible while you're carrying him/her.
Everyone wants people to keep their opinions to themselves when it comes to difficult issues, like saying oh well give her a break maybe she's trying and having a hard time....but this person doesn't even seem like she's trying to stop. We all say give her a break, but what about her baby ? Even if it wasn't planned or wanted, doesn't it still have a right to have a mother who cares enough to at least try and stop? Come on she's already 30 weeks into her pregnancy and commenting how she will smoke even more after the baby is born. That to me doesn't sound like someone who is willing to even attempt to stop smoking.
I'm sorry maybe it's hormones but it really gets to me that people feel the need to defend someone who clearly is only thinking of themselves and not the child that is inside them.