Minstermind
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I know there's a couple other threads similar to this but this is a different take on the situation and looking for honest input.
My son is 7. We live in a town of about 50,000 people (so not a big city but not a small village). We live in a very residential area. The walk to school takes about 15 minutes. Half of it is purely residential areas. There is one road with a crosswalk (push button to make the traffic stop) and the rest is side roads to the school, where there is a lollipop lady (crossing guard) to get the kids across the road.
My neighbor has three children ages 5, 7, and 9. He has already started letting the 9 year old make his own way to and from school but he and I both share turns walking the other kids (his and my son) to and from school.
Next year he says he plans to let them all walk up and back themselves as the oldest, 9 years old, will be with them. I do not feel comfortable with this and I'm already planning to take up the morning and afternoon walks in order to ensure the safety of my son at least!
Both the neighbor dad and my husband feel it's ok when school starts next year, for the lot of them to walk up and back together, as they are in a group and there is a 9-year old among them. My husband cites examples of himself walking to and from school at age 6 (when he had his siblings with him).
They both think I disagree with it because I come from the states and have lived in a big city where fear, fear, fear is drilled into parents.
I would like some honest feedback from others just to see what the opinions are...would you let your 7 year old walk to and from school if in a group with other kids?
My son is 7. We live in a town of about 50,000 people (so not a big city but not a small village). We live in a very residential area. The walk to school takes about 15 minutes. Half of it is purely residential areas. There is one road with a crosswalk (push button to make the traffic stop) and the rest is side roads to the school, where there is a lollipop lady (crossing guard) to get the kids across the road.
My neighbor has three children ages 5, 7, and 9. He has already started letting the 9 year old make his own way to and from school but he and I both share turns walking the other kids (his and my son) to and from school.
Next year he says he plans to let them all walk up and back themselves as the oldest, 9 years old, will be with them. I do not feel comfortable with this and I'm already planning to take up the morning and afternoon walks in order to ensure the safety of my son at least!
Both the neighbor dad and my husband feel it's ok when school starts next year, for the lot of them to walk up and back together, as they are in a group and there is a 9-year old among them. My husband cites examples of himself walking to and from school at age 6 (when he had his siblings with him).
They both think I disagree with it because I come from the states and have lived in a big city where fear, fear, fear is drilled into parents.
I would like some honest feedback from others just to see what the opinions are...would you let your 7 year old walk to and from school if in a group with other kids?