MISSN8 - sorry for the delay in responding as ive not logged on since. We have been together for 18 months, but i have actually worked with him for 12 years
He is delaying really as it was it to be just right (settled in house etc) and i can see where he is coming from, but i really don't think he understands it could take a while. My sister tried for 7 years (failed IVF's) until they had a baby and my friend the same age as me has been trying for over a year and are seeing the doctor now.
Anyhoo i have take a decision and i have come off the pill and he is fully aware of it and is ok with it, although we will be using condoms until he decides he is ready. I will be mentioning it again before my birthday in a few months as at 36 i really am getting stressed!
I'll be 30 in a few weeks and have an 8 month old. It took us a few years to have her so ideally we'd have had 2 by now.
We want 3 in total and I'd like to be done by 35 so will (hopefully) have a closer age gap that was in my grand plan but I don't know if it'll take us ages again.
I had a great pregnancy at 28/29 so hoping a few years doesn't take it's toll too much!
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