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Anyone in the same predicament, my first born is now 3 and I am now suddenly being quizzed by everyone on:
Do you think you'll have any more?
Would you like another?
Isn't it time for another?
I have my bets on you being next
Are you planning to have another one?
Erin needs a brother or sister
And i never know what to say especially in work - that's where these questions bother me as they tend to be colleagues not close friends, who i do openly discuss with. It makes me feel a bit cross as no one knows the circumstances, i could have been trying for a long time for all they know. As it is i haven't, but we bought a new house last year and I'm waiting to be in the right financial situation again, where we should hopefully be soon and also i had no idea how we would have afforded two in nursery but I would love to have another and makes me quite sad when people ask.
How do you deal with these sort of questions? I have ended up saying yes we'd like another and just quickly change the subject! But makes me feel awkward. Especially if they continue to ask when we are TTC
Do you think you'll have any more?
Would you like another?
Isn't it time for another?
I have my bets on you being next
Are you planning to have another one?
Erin needs a brother or sister
And i never know what to say especially in work - that's where these questions bother me as they tend to be colleagues not close friends, who i do openly discuss with. It makes me feel a bit cross as no one knows the circumstances, i could have been trying for a long time for all they know. As it is i haven't, but we bought a new house last year and I'm waiting to be in the right financial situation again, where we should hopefully be soon and also i had no idea how we would have afforded two in nursery but I would love to have another and makes me quite sad when people ask.
How do you deal with these sort of questions? I have ended up saying yes we'd like another and just quickly change the subject! But makes me feel awkward. Especially if they continue to ask when we are TTC