yay finally saw a Dr who agrees with our parenting choices! :D

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We had Elizas reflux appointment yesterday, all went well, he prescribed her meds and she has only a slight redness to her throat which will heal on its own in a few weeks :) so no permanent damage yay :)

anyway he was asking how it effects her sleep so i told him very confidently we co sleep, she sleeps in the crook of my arm and she has done since birth. he started off on the usual guidelines say we should put babys to sleep in their own space, foot to base of cot... all the usual stuff lol! but then he surprised me by saying he personally didnt agree with this and he personally thought it was best that babies and children sleep with their parents until the child feels ready to go into a dfferent bed! he said him and his wife have 3 children and they have 2 double beds in the bedroom! him and his eldest 2 children (5 and 4) in 1 bed with him and his wife and 2 year old in the other bed as the 2 year old is still having BFs in the night, he said that if more than half of the worlds population co sleep then he sees no reason why we shouldn't! he just went through a quick check list of stuff like asking about bedding ect to make sure there was no risk to baby and he was fine with it. he also congratulated me on carrying on BFing even when Eliza would scream at the breast with her reflux and for me cutting out dairy so that we could still continue :) he asked me how long i was planning on BFing for, i said i guess until she is ready to stop, he thought that was brilliant and has referred me to the dietition (SP?) to make sure that i am getting enough calcium in my diet since im no longer having dairy and so that i can make sure im getting all the nutrients i need to make sure Eliza is getting everything she needs.
This is the first appointment iv been to woth eliza that has turned out well! im so happy right now lol! :D x
 
oh and just to make me even happier, Eliza was weighed and is now 14lb 3oz! just 3oz shy of doubling her birth weight! and all from just mummys milk :) im so happy!! xxx
 
He sounds like a lovely and excellent doctor! And I'm glad LO will be fine :)
 
So glad you had a good experience! DH and I cosleep, with our reflux baby as it seems to be the only way to get any sleep...though as I type this I think he has been up at least five times tonight, lol!
 
wow! Drs like him are few and far between! Can you see him every time you take LO to the Dr??
 
So glad you had a good experience! DH and I cosleep, with our reflux baby as it seems to be the only way to get any sleep...though as I type this I think he has been up at least five times tonight, lol!

our co sleeping was a choice we made before LO arrived, i couldnt sleep when my eldest was sleeping in the cot, i had to keep getting up and checking on her meaning i got no sleep lol!
i think id be even worse if we didnt co sleep now, id worry she had been sick constantly!
oh god 5 times!! Eliza has started waking up 3 times a night now, she was sleeping through from 12-6 which was bliss, so waking every few hours now feels even worse! lol! xxx
 
wow! Drs like him are few and far between! Can you see him every time you take LO to the Dr??

i know! i went there expecting to get told off like usual for the parenting choices we have made!
i dont know if we can see him each time but im going to try my damn hardest to! xx
 

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