alice&bump
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will i?? how do you know??!! what if i dont realise? am gettin a bit worried that i wont know now!
I'm gonna throw a spanner in the works. I've given birth 5 times previously and 3 of those times I really wasn't sure if my tummy tightening was anything to get excited about, got checked out "just in case" and was 4 cms dilated....I really didn't know I was in labour at that time as the tightenings didn't hurt at all, just uncomfortable.
One of the other times I was at my 38wk antenatal check and said I was worried etc (coz I lost the 1st two babies) so consultant said she's bring me in for induction 2 days later but wanted to examine me there and then to see what kind of induction method I may need.
When she was examining me she started to laugh...I asked what was funny and she said
"Heather, you're 4-5cms dilated....did you not know?"
Last birth....I was in hospital for overnight observation after having a bit of a tumble on my way home from the morning school run. When they checked baby's heart they said they weren't completely happy with it and wanted to keep me in to check it again later on. So I stayed, checked again later and baby was fine.
When I woke up I thought "right, how do I get out of here asap?". Went to the loo and discovered I'd had a show, also had a cramp but thought it was wind. I told the midwife who put me on the monitor. As soon as she left the room............shit.......contractions every minute or so, each one more painful than the last. I buzzed for the midwife and said I wanted an epidural, she laughed and asked what I was talking about....then saw the monitor. I was 4cm's and rushed up to delivery, hubby got there just in time and Toby was born less than 2 hours after I had woken up. OMG...I hope my labour doesn't go that quick this time
If in doubt, check it out. My waters only ever broke right at the end of each labour so that's not always the 1st sign.
I'm sure you'll be fine chick
Now I am more confused about it all. I can see me landing at hospitals for false labours and being a tortor if i start getting it weeks before. Sounds enough to drive someone mad! I just hope baby dosnt mess about and wants out when it does.
and as for waiting for regular pains for 2 hours, my mum had had me and my sister by that point!!!!