What are your first memories of you & OH first meeting ... I got with my OH at a BBQ ... I was the host! We'd been friends online for ages & having a pretty shitty time and always so nice, never my type though ... When he got to the BBQ I all of a sudden went quiet was shocked & telling myself to get a grip maybe it was just because of the friendly comfort he'd given me & we use to speak until all hours. anyway got drunk & he took advantage The weekend was over & we decided he would come back to mine the weekend after so the people I work for (forum & holiday site) invited us for lunch & drinks - really nice huose, lovely people & we just got hammered so bad Stu fell outside their front door We got to my house & I had to carry him in after he sent me crashing to the floor that was We went in & he hogged my toilet, he wasn't ill just very drunk - This was really the first 'together or not weekend' ... I needed a wee an of course I didn't want to leave him there but the cheeky fucker said "I'll come out if you make me a ham sarnie & a cuppa tea" Do you think I should have ran then?? LOL Won't forget it ever!