Hi Ladies, I wont go on too long but I was shocked when my OH came out with this statement the other day. He seems to think it will be unfair for my Mum or Dad to see the baby before his Mum gets the chance to. I think this is unfair because it is me who has to go through labor etc, and I don't know how I am going to feel during or afterwards as it is my first baby and we don't know what the birth will entail. I might want my Mum their but I might not, I don't know, but I know she want's to be their. His mum is on her own and he is worried it will hurt her feelings if my parents get to see the baby first, but what about my feelings?? Of course I'm going to feel more comfortable in my parents company after such an ordeal, he just doesn't understand and thinks I am excluding her and being horrible as usual. Is it normal for the mothers parents to see the baby before the fathers parents? Oh and I only have two days to sort myself out before the whole family are invited over WTF?. I never thought we'd be having this argument. I just want to know I am allowed my mum their if I need her and I don't have to entertain his Mother or his whole family before I am ready to. Nightmare!! I'd love to know what you ladies think. Any advice would be appreciated.