I must admit he's a bit brave to be dictating such terms to a pregnant woman!
I'm very lucky in that my M & FIL have 9 other grandkids so they've done it so many times before. I've said that for the first few days (and hospital) all I want is ILs, my parents, my bro and OH's daughters. Like I said, ILs are so laid back about it, they've said they'll let us settle in at home first. Bless them.
This is my first kid, so my mum and dad are very excited about it, but even they've said the hospital is time for me, OH and the girls. Plus my dad is bringing us back from hospital.
Everyone else has been told that they've got to give us a few days to come round, and that people need to call first, as we live in a one bed flat and I don't want crowds in all at the same time and want to limit visitors on each day. I'm not looking for a party atmosphere everyday.
Sounds a bit complicated, but like I've said everyone on OH's side has kids, knows how it is and doesn't push. Plus they all they're own lives and wont be dropping everything to rush to see us!!!
If you want your mum at the birth he has no right to say anything to that, I'm sure you wont stop his mum seeing the baby once it's here, so he needs to wind his neck in with that. You're his wife!
And as for you being told you have two days, I'd tell him to shove that up his arse in the nastiest way possible! YOU get to decide when you are ready for visitors, not him.
Stick to your guns, girl and don't let him dictate to you about your birth. You've done all the chuffing work for the last nine months!
Hope you're OK with it all. xxxx