Hey ladies I'm new to here and just thought I'd share what im currently up to and I'd just like to get your thoughts on what I'm doing. About a year ago (June 06 to be exact) I fell pregnant for the first time, I was so excited, all I kept thinking was 'this is it, im beginning my life, i want this so badly' it was so exciting! I even starting receiving gifts at 7 weeks, I was so suprised! Opening gifts that had tiny clothes and shoes in them, it was finally kicking that I was carrying a little person inside me..at 8 weeks I got incrediably ill. I had the worse case of morning sickness that my doctors had seen. I was sick for three days before I was admitted to hospital, I couldn't hold water down by now. I was throwing up with food walking past me. I was on IV fluids just so I was getting something. After three weeks in hospital like this, with next to nothing to eat or drink, they told me that it was slim that the baby would survive through this. I had an U/S and they found that there was no heartbeat. My options were to grow the baby and have a still born child or they would induce a miscarriage. I chose to induce. I couldnt imagine walking around for 9 months having myself grow with my dead child inside of me, I couldnt bare it.. So here I am now a little over a year and a half and trying again. I'm not going to do charts and stuff, I'm just gonna have lots of sex in between periods. After all, last time i tried it took just three weeks to fall! lol amazing i know.. So I was just wondering if I was going about it the right way and just doing it free for all type of thing.. or should i try and plan and stuff? thoughts? Thanks heaps for reading my story!