oh dear god... a 40 minute settling in session...more like a 40 minute screaming session. i went back to get him and he was in a side room screaming his head off. the ratehr dry nursery nurse just said "yes we have had some tears" and then left. i left the building alone feeling really upset and drove all the way to meet my friend planning on how i could give up work. ive booked his session tomorrow later so he isnt so tired and plan to leave before he knows ive gone. its just hideous. i felt so guilty.