kc1980
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I wish that someone had warned me about this "switch" that was going to come on, but anyway. It just did, about 10 days ago, and I am ready to have a baby. My husband, on the other hand, isn't sure, and I totally see his perspective. He says that having a child changes everything, he likes his life the way it is, so I guess he's putting 2 & 2 together and thinks that a change might be bad.
Anyone else experienced this? i.e. husband that isn't sure that he's ready, while you are? I don't doubt that he would love our baby, but I don't want to pressure him into anything he may not want, or isn't 100% sure about. Is there any other way of testing to see if he's ready?? I tried asking him "What if I took a pregnancy test today & it came out positive? Without thinking about it, what is your gut reaction?"
His response? (after thinking, mind you...) "I'd probably say, ok, let's do this" (have the baby)
Any advice or suggestions welcome! thanks
Anyone else experienced this? i.e. husband that isn't sure that he's ready, while you are? I don't doubt that he would love our baby, but I don't want to pressure him into anything he may not want, or isn't 100% sure about. Is there any other way of testing to see if he's ready?? I tried asking him "What if I took a pregnancy test today & it came out positive? Without thinking about it, what is your gut reaction?"
His response? (after thinking, mind you...) "I'd probably say, ok, let's do this" (have the baby)
Any advice or suggestions welcome! thanks