18 due in june

[YummyMummy]

My Names Eva im 18 years old and have just found out im pregnant

i am currently living with my mum but my babydaddy is trying to get us our own place

this will be my 1st baby and i would like loads of advice.

alot of my friends have kids or are pregnant so there alot of help

How do u feel abt becoming a teen mum?

how was it wen u told ur parents?

if u havent y aint u?

you single or with the dad?

but hey tell me a lol about you lot

xx

 

[sarah_massey]

I don't know if you would still consider me a teen mom, but congratulations! I am 19, will be 20 in March and my DH and I got married in September, he's 21. I think I might be pregnant too, so yay for first time mommys!

 

[ColtonsMom]

I'm 18.. due in March. I will be 19 when Colton is born. Me and the daddy have been together for almost 3 years, and he is 23.
My mom was really excited when I told her I was still going to school.. lol.

Anyways, congrats on the new life!

 

[GAURDIANANGEL]

WOW. we are like due the same day almost.
thats like awesome. lol.

this is my first too. so i don't have much advice. sorry.
but pm me sometime i like having people to talk to.

 

[NzMummy]

Heya girls

Im not a teen now im 22 i got preg at 18 with my 1st an had him at 19 then had my 2nd at 21 an am now preg with my 3rd due in june.

I told my parents a week after i found out with both my boys but they still dont know bout #3 lol

Congrats to you all

 

[xCherylx]

Hi and welcome!
Im also 18 but I knew I was pregnant when I was 3 weeks hehe because I went straight to the doctor. I also live with my mum and dad and they don't want me to move out and infact asked my OH to move in which he has. The house is big enough and we have a spare room for the baby which is good.

This is my first baby too and I'm already full of questions lol! And this is certainly the place to ask them as we are all going through the same things

I'm personally not that worried about being a teen mum I think it's easier to bond with the child as we can kind of relate to them more, my mum was 18 when she had me and we are more like best friends.

My parents were only really worried how it would affect my degree but it falls just after my exams (if i'm not early ) but once they knew they were so happy

 

[Serene123]

Welcome & congrats!


I'm 18 also. Being a teen mum isn't the worst thing in the world. My mum cried for 2days but she's fine now (really excited actually.) My dad didn't really have an opinion but he had his first when he was 18. I'm still with the dad for now although he's getting fed up of me and my hormones.

 

[**ALRE&Bump<3]

Hi and welcome Eva =]
congrats on ur bump

I'm Amber, am pg with my 3rd and I'm 16
I had my 1st at 13 an 2nd at 15
mum and dad were not best pleased the 1st or 2nd, or 3rd time round for that matter, but 1st was worst.
I'm not with my 1sts dad, Carl, he buggared off as soon as he found he had knocked me up lol, but Ruby is an amazing little girl.
Liam my fiancee is bio dad 2 2nd and 3rd and is a perfect dad to Ruby too =]
My babies r the best thing ever to happen to me, as is Liam as he is fab!
My parents and his are massively supportive, his parents look fter Ruby and Ella on saturdays so we get time alone and we live with my parents so theyre there all the time
but we dont sponge help off them, or anything off the government- unless u count child benefit- lol- Liam works with my dad as a plumber and I'm part time at college.
but yep, think thats all bout me lol!

Look 4wrd 2 chatting and wishing u happy and healthy months 2 come hun xxx

 

[babyboylove]

i am 18 and 28 weeks pregnant and i am really worried lately

 

[maddiwatts19]

Hello!
congratualtions on the pregnancy!
Im 19 and having my first.
Havent told my parents yet, but purely because its still early, and ive had a miscarraige before, so we decided to wait till after 12 weeks to tell family.
Still with thee father, getting married in 2 years
Scared,nervous and excited about this all at the same time! lol
x

 

[jibby]

hi all...interesting to read all your letters... when my daughter told me she was pregnant it was the biggest shock of my life..lol...... she due in 6 weeks and to be honest we are now really looking forward to the baby coming.....yes i cried for days on end too.Just the thought of being a granny at my age is still a bit of a tricky one haha... My advise to any teenager who is pregnant please tell your parents... you will need their support....they might be upset but that will pass.....and they will be there for you like i am for my daughter......

 

[Tink1o5]

Hi im Erika, Im 18. and me and my OH have been together for almost 6 years, not married yet because of Social Security purposes, but deffinatly gonna get married. Right now we are TTC. This is our first month TTC...

Congrats on your Pregnancy!

 

[Lauren-x]

I'm 17 and due in Aug/September not entirely sure yet. I got my first midwife appointment on the 25th Feb, I'm really excited now just still a little worried and cautious only problem is my 'friend' has been blabbing I even told her I was worried incase anything went wrong but she couldn't keep her bloody mouth shut, I'm so angry at her. My Mum is really upset about it so what makes it worse is my friend told people at my Mums work and made out my Mum is a bad Mum! It's not even her place to tell people I think it's because she wants a baby but still it's my problem not hers so she doesn't 'need to talk about it'. [My Mum isn't a bad Mum, she's just worried about my future]

Sorry if you think I'm being bitchy it's just it aggrovates me cause my Mum is only just coming to terms with it!

I'm not with the BabyDaddy, but I think he will come round to it eventually. Might be just the shock at the moment so when his parents find out it will probably help him alot more. He has been nice to me since we started talking again he's just really confused lol. Bless him, I still love him alot but I think my baby deserves a chance to live but I don't think anything bad about people who abort because they couldn't cope. I do hope he comes round to the idea, but if he doesn't I'll just do what's best for our bean .

 

[Sarah_16x]

Hiya and congrats im 16 and my bfs 18, im 19 weeks pregnant , im still with my bf and i live with my bfs parents and we are currently trying to find our own place. My mum and dad dident really say much. xxx

 

[Kayleigh]

Hi there! I was 17 when i had my little girl, I was rally in shock and could not believe it! When i told my parents my dad took it better then my mum lol! My dad was fine but as for my mum very upset! I'm now 19 and am pregnant with my second,both parents were fine this time lol! But it is not that bad having my little girl was the best thing in the world and i would not change it! It helps you grow up a hell of alot! So good luck!xx!!

 

[Tam]

Hi

Welcome to Baby and Bump!

Wishing you a very healthy & happy pregnancy! x

 

[Vickie]

Welcome and congratulations!!

 

[Abbys_Mummy]

Congrats i was 17 when i had my first she sadly passed away i am now 18 will be 19 when bub is pregnant parents are great support and your partner will be great to just do what you feel is right and good luck

 

[charliesam]

hi all...interesting to read all your letters... when my daughter told me she was pregnant it was the biggest shock of my life..lol...... she due in 6 weeks and to be honest we are now really looking forward to the baby coming.....yes i cried for days on end too.Just the thought of being a granny at my age is still a bit of a tricky one haha... My advise to any teenager who is pregnant please tell your parents... you will need their support....they might be upset but that will pass.....and they will be there for you like i am for my daughter......

you are so nice - ur daughter is lucky x

 

[charliesam]

hi i just want to tell you about my situation- which is kinda similar to yours, i am 17, will be 18 in june, my baby is due end of august, so im almost 18 weeks, i have been with my boyfriend for 2 &1/2 years,we are looking for a flat and i am a fully qualified hairdresser, i was upset at first, my mum told me it would be a mistake if i kept it, but theres no way id ever get rid of my baby, now i am so exited and my mum is knitting it a coat lol, everyone has to accept it, they have no choice and as im sure people have told you, there is never a right time for a baby, no the only thing i am scared of is loosing my baby (which i felt reassured when i heard its heartbeat last week for the first time, ) and also i am scared about tearing or having to be cut during birth - OH MY GOD!! how do you feel? do u think people treat u different? x