2 children too much?

[Keza]

In a crap frame of mind at the moment. Pregnant with my second by my first sons father. His not interested and out of the picture since shortly after me falling preg. I just feel like im going to be alone forever with 2 kids. Men don't mind 1 so much but 2!? Feels impossible to find someone. Im damaged goods.

Give me some positive stories ladies.

 

[EleanoirRigby]

I know many good women with great hearts that have found love with two or even more children. Yes, it's probably going to be harder. But you're weeding out those who won't matter. You're not damaged goods. You are a strong, beautiful woman with love for her two perfect children. The right man will see that, let the rest go. I hope your heart stops hurting soon & that things will get easier on you.

 

[Mushymilkfor2]

My sister had 3 kids when she left her husband. Since she has found such an amazing man for her. He is such a better for her and her life than her ex ever would be. It all worked out wonderful in the end.

 

[TTC 84]

I met an amazing man when I already had 2 kids from previous relationship , the right man will accept your children

 

[chezababy]

My mum met my step dad with 4 children and he was a single man with no children. Maybe it is harder but it's definitely possible. My step dad is a great husband and mum is so much happier than she was with my dad. He is also a fantastic step dad and step grandad and father (they now have a son together).

 

[Nikie]

My sister had three. Lovely children with a man that wasn't right for her....luckily she then found the perfect man and he has a little boy of his own. They are getting married next month and are the perfect family of 6 x

 

[lisa1980]

My MIL met an amazing man when she was a single mum to four kids. He had no children but they then had one together.

If he's the right man then he'll accept your children as the blessings that they are.

 

[gemstone]

My mum had 5 kids and never struggled to get a man. She has been happy married for 14 years now 😃

 

[o0oCharlieo0o]

I was a single parent of two boys, didnt stop me and my fiance getting together, he has a son from a previous relationship, we have a daughter together and im pregnant with our second child, we are getting married august next year, so dont feel that way hun you will find the right person for you xxx

 

[littlesteph]

my step mum had 4 my dad had 3 nothing stopped them. we ended up just being a family of 7. if a guy loves you then he's not going to care how many kids you have, a decent guy will take care of you and your kids.

 

[dollyminxture]

A good man wont mind how many kids you have, all he will care is that you and they are happy.
They are out there, my mother in law had 2 kids when she met my father in law and he loves them like his own and had another with her, they have been married 35 years!
In the meantime make sure you and your kids are happy, and the right man will come when he is ready x

 

[Shezza84uk]

I felt like you did during my pregnancy with my son he's now almost 3 and my daughter is almost 8. I met my wonderful fiancé just before my sons 2nd birthday and he's inseparable from "our" kids! You are not damaged good you are a strong woman worthy of respect love and dedication.

It took me some time to realise it wasn't me that was the issue it was my ex, look within yourself and realise you are worth more than he could have ever offered you and your kids, take time to heal before pursuing a new relationship I too took the time to just love myself and analyse what went wrong, I had to realise I deserved better and so do you.


Time is a great healer just be patients and embrace your babies, let them be your comfort and your strength.

Good luck xx

 

[Keza]

Thanks Ladies you guys are right. I had been speaking to an American guy for a short while who is over here in the uk and I didn't think he would accept me. I finally went on a date with him yesterday and his lovely and very understanding. We are going out again on Friday to his friends for a bbq. Am super excited :-D

 

[purplepeenut]

Milf is the most searched porn term. Been reading books on social psychology. Theres nothing sexier or more femimen to a man then a mother. They are attracted to the caring nuturing side or women! After all they are all just trying to replace their own mothers with someone with the same qualities plus the added sexual attraction. Only insecure / commitment phobic men shy away from women with children and you dont want them anyway!

 

[jenny873]

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