2days till scan so scared :(2nd update1st post

[summersky09]

hi ladies,
im due 2 have a scan saturday morn by then i will b 6 weeks 2days, i currently am bleeding quite heavy due 2 having a 2cm hematoma, all im hearing at the moment is bad news with stories like mine a girl i met at the hosp has had bad news and a lady i have been speaking 2 on ere has had bad news! i just want 2 break down n cry all the time im just so scared,tired and worried about going 2 the hosp as i never seem 2 get gud news just bad, i feel so alone right now.

hi there ladies well as u know bin goin thru a very confussing time just lately well last night i was taken in2 hospital as i was bleeding severely bad litterally soaking thru everything it was tottally hurrendous!!!! i had a scan 2day and the baby was confirmed 2 have died and they also found another baby hiding away with has also died which was the cause 4 the bleed last nite, they have decided to do a dnc 2moro as they are now worried about infection due to my cervix bein slightly open but my body just wont dispell the tissues , im so scared and worried but because this will b my eighth miscarriage they will b sending me 4 tests FINALLY 2 see y this is happening and also will test the fetul tissue, thank u so much ladies 4 being there and listening all the ladies on this site are truelly amazing n hopefully i will be back in the nxt few months with sum good news xx

 

[Sparklestar]

hey hun, i havent been through this but i have had a mmc at 14+6....i understand how worried and concerned and tired you are but if everything is ok then the stress will not do the LO any good. certain bridges need to be crossed when they present themselves. Big hugs and good luck xxxxx

 

[Sparklestar]

i found this xxxx

'When your doctor first says the words "subchorionic hematoma," your first response might be to panic -- perhaps even more so if you hear the scarier sounding version "subchorionic hemorrhage." (The two are synonyms.) But although finding out you have a subchorionic hematoma is not great news, it doesn't always mean you're destined for an unhappy outcome -- and many pregnancies affected by subchorionic hematoma turn out fine.'

 

[summersky09]

thank u 4 that sparklestar i know stressing is no good i just cudnt handle another loss

 

[saxon]

Huge husg and I hope the next 2 days go very quick for you and the scan goes really well. I have had 2 hemoriges with thsi pregnancy but they have been either on the cervics in the baby whole due to getting a bit to jiggy dueing adult time IYKWIM. And everything is going fine at the moment. Bubbas are growing lovely and both have a great heartbeat. Hope this is helpful for you and I am praying for good news on Saturday

 

[summersky09]

thank u saxon that is helpfull and much appreciated the ladies on here on so supportive its great especially wen u dont really want 2 talk 2 friends and family before u know everythings goin 2 b okay, wishing u the happiest and healthiest 9 months or minus however long u have left lol x

 

[Smiler13]

Good luck today summersky.

 

[mordino]

Hugs for you, I can understand your anxiety. Hope your scan went well - keep us updated. x

 

[lauralora]

good luck hunny xxx

 

[cazza22]

Good luck huny ive got everything crossed for u x x x

 

[summersky09]

right ladies, i went 4 my scan and there was no heartbeat but the baby has grown and matching my exact dates at 6weeks2days but my hematoma has resolved now but its not looking good!!!!!they think the baby has recently died i.e this morning or yesterday as the growth is wat it shud b but they also think i might ov lost a twin 2 so its all still very confussing upsetting heartbreaking and knowing ive gta wait another 7 days 4 a scan 2 confirm 1 way or other is agonising!!!! thank u ladies 4 ur support xxx

 

[going_crazy]

Just remember it is still REALLY early to find the heatbeat, hopefully when you go back in 7 days there will be a bouncing bean with a nice hearthbeat!

Try not to worry (easier said than done i know), and there is always hope until your next scan xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[im_mi]

oh my goodness, you poor thing! sending love and strength to help get you through the next week xxxxx

 

[summersky09]

but they seen a heartbeat at 5 plus 2 weeks and now not i bloody hate all this y do i have 2 wait so long ive seriously had enuff

 

[Drazic<3]

Oh darling, sending you love and - Thinking of you -x-

 

[Smiler13]

Sorry to hear this, best wishes summersky.

 

[millwallrose4]

I'm sorry it wasn't good news, I just hope your next scan tells you one way or another. Hope you are ok.

 

[summersky09]

so do i millwall thanks ladies ur a great support

 

[Mummy2Asher]

i have my fingers tightly crossed for you and know how aweful the wait can be good luck for the next scan xxx

 

[123davis]

oh summersky.....................i pray things will be ok for u. i had my erpc done on friday, i now feel i can get on with my life. so very sad as it was my 3rd one and sometimes think why me??? wat have i done, but these things happen for a reason. i am now being sent to a specialist so i hope something is sorted and i never have to go through this horrible experience ever again. thinking of u. take care and hope to hear from you soon xxx