3 psychics see no pregnancy 4 me any time soon...

[TrixieLox]

*sigh* The latest, when I asked if she sees children or pregnancy this or next year, looked very sad, shook her head and said: "I'm sorry, no." As blunt as that. But she did say she sees a book deal for me!

BTW, I don't go see psychics all the time in an obsessive manner, just friends who drag me along as I'm the most open-minded of us all.

Anyway, if just one said it, fair dues. But THREE?

Though on the spiritual side of things, I do keep dreaming about a little baby girl.

Have you guys had any psychic experiences re: TTCing etc? x

 

[maz]

Funny - I was considering finding a psychic to see what they see on the ttc front, but my DH wasn't too keen. I'm not sure whether to follow it through considering we're so close to having our 2nd cycle of IVF. I don't want to get my hopes up too much, and at the same time I don't want to get too stressed or be too defeatist about it either...

 

[Coffee]

Ah hun, 2 psyshics told me that me and DH were a mega fertile couple and would conceive as soon as we had unprotected sex - that was a flipping joke! It's science that matters in this game, not psychics, just ignore it. I'm sure they are very good at picking up on body language and perhaps you asking the question made them realise you have been ttc and not having much luck?

 

[Omi]

Can i just point out, hun..coming from a family who has some psychic ability (no, im not psychic, lol..but we can all tell things if you're tuned in etc) that as human beings we have free will. That means that even psychics work on the premise of reading the future by what is going on now. here and now. Anything, any little thing changes in the current and your future can take a dramatic turn.

Dont despair hun..your future is not set and you are the driver in this journey!!

Big Hugs, Omi xx

ps...yes, do tend to trust my instincts. But you have weed out the worry, the negativity or anything else that comes in and clouds the view. It can be very difficult, yes...but it can be done. Like you i feel i have a baby girl 'out there' waiting for me. I cant explain it..i simply feel it. After all the lousy crap i have gone through, i now try to just go with the flow...accept what i know in my heart and edit all the rest....

 

[CurlySue]

Take no notice. They just play on your vulnerability. I had one promise me I'd have a baby within five or six months. That was over a year ago. I had another who said I'd have three kids by age 25. Nope, not happened. Another said I'd have two girls, one when I was 24 and another when I was 26. Again, nope.

They talk bollix, love.

 

[Farie]

so sorry honey, try not to take it to heart

I have a fair bit of experience with psychics as my mother is a very 'alternative/spiritual' person who gets very involved with things; her 'best friend' assured me that I wouldn't be trying 'for long at all' ... not sure what she see's as a long time ... may be I should have clarified that?!?

Omi explained it the best, don't take it seriously

 

[Brambletess]

Yes, please do not take this seriously, I think some psychics probably truly believe they have a gift because they sense things in people more quickly than others, what they are probably sesing with you is some despair and negativity around concieving and interpretating it as no babies. When in reality they don't know any more than you and I. We all have those negative feelings though so they would probably had said the same for most ot us.

I do also think some of them can be good at picking up on insecurities and using that as a way of making people rely on them. The more vulnerable people become the more they seek help or guidence from others, which in many ways is good if its about rebuilding your confidence and gaining coping mechanisisms but not if you are handing the control of your life and destiny to others. You can take control of that yourself. Look within and decide what you want and just hold on to that and visualise it.


Good luck with everything

Maz - spend the money on a massage or something that will actually be of benefit xx sorry i just don't think you will get any answers, only the little plastic tube with the two lines on can tell you that.

 

[CurlySue]

All they do is get your hopes up. You start living your life with what they said in mind and then when the time comes and goes you only end up resenting them and being upset with them for making you think something was going to happen.

I am still fecked off with that psychic who told me "Trust me, I have NEVER been wrong."

Should've taped her saying that. I have physical proof that she is, indeed, wrong, and I want my twenty quid back.

 

[wantingmore]

I went for a hypnotherapy session for an issue that I have dealt with for many years. As I was leaving the office, the lady did Reike over my lower abdomen and said she felt a lot of energy..which is a good thing....and that I'd conceive "soon." 3 months later, still no baby....so just for kicks I called her up to see if she remembered me and her definition of soon. This was in the end of Nov 2008. She paused and said by the end of January. So, I had my period in the beginning of Jan, so unless I get pregnant this week (and I have ovulated already) she will be wrong. She also said she saw a daughter in my future. I am not counting on her because I believe in a higher power....just waiting.

 

[miel]

yep!!!

a lot of them told me i will have 3 kids by the age of 30....yeahmmm! almost 34 now and zero kids!!!

no worries sweetie ! but i will get a kick out of it if you were preggo next cycle !!! that will be so funny

 

[JASMAK]

Can you find a "second opinion"?

 

[MrsJD]

Ignore them!

I went to one last year after my misscarriage in July and she said I will have pregnancy news in November and it will be a boy plus I'll have a girl in 2 years time also.

WELL!!!!! My Nov pregnancy was a Chemical, Dec pregnancy ended in misscarriage too. I only plan on having one more child, so to say I'll have a boy then 2 years down the line a girl is a load of PANTS as I'm 39 this year.

I'm seeing a Consultant next months to discuss RMC and IVF so if it was successfull then I may have twins, BOY and GIRL but hey I could have read that on the internet researching IVF rather than wasting 50 quid on some stupid woman.

 

[CurlySue]

I had one say to me once "you might have twins...or you might not."

Hmm.

 

[pixielou]

I have really been thinking recently about seeing someone and getting some advice etc. I have always believed that if you are seeking someone to give you this advice it is either something that will happen naturally. For example someone you know or meet randomly will give you this information or if you do go and see someone then it should not be something that is paid for. The person doing the reading etc should maybe accept cash towards charity etc. The thing is I'm still waiting, lol!

 

[Pook]

Hiya,

I know its hard but I'd try not to worry too much. A psychic once told my friend (who was TTC for over 3 years) that she didn't ever see her having children. She became pregnant just after that & had a perfectly healthy baby!

Good luck hun

 

[coley144]

Hi.

As one of my jobs (I have 3!) I'm a tarot reader and wanted to comment on this for you. There are traditional cards that mean pregnancy (the Sun or the Empress), which they may not have seen but there are plenty of other cards that could mean pregnancy (i.e. celebration cards, love cards, etc). So what I am saying here is that no tarot reader should, or could, say NO to a possible pregnancy. So please, please do not accept this as fact. We tarot readers don't deal in facts. We deal, when we do it right, in choices and hope.

I hope this helps. No, don't worry I am not trying to sell you a reading I just don't want your belief to be wrecked by these stupid readers. x

 

[Omi]

Just wanted to second Coley's post. Thats what i was told and what i believe. Its all in the present. You could decide something tomorrow that could throw any reading off.

Also, as many have pointed out- there are crap people out there doing this stuff. Ive been told many a thing, But then again, i have done things that would have changed these readings many times over.

Most crap psychis wont even do a reading for my mum for intance....they just know they cant get away with it!

The best psychic i ever knew, he was a family friend and i was only 13, told me, as they all do, anyone can be psychic. And as such never did a reading for me (hey, i was 13!!) but did say , belive in your own intuition- its there for a reason!

You obviously know, as i do, you'll have a child one day- well, sod the rest!!!

Big Hugs, Omi xxx

 

[FJL]

Take what they say with a grain of salt.

On the other hand, since we've been TTC (2 1/2 years) i've had 4 psychics tell me that we have no fert probs, we won't need treatment and we will be pg within a certain timeframe (eg, 2 months)

Alas all of the above timeframes have passed and we've done a few IVF cycles with numerous fert problems!

Its a bunch of bull for the most part!

Don't listen to them...your baby is coming

 

[DaisyDuke]

Oh hun i'm so sorry, i beleive in phycics and i also beleive that the universe changes, so the outcome for u will hopefully change for the better. My uncle is a clairvoyant, so i know a bit about it all.

I have had a reading and she said i will get preg in march this year from a cycle begining Feb, so not this cycle next. She said i will have a boy and he will be born 27th Nov or 4th Dec. Not sure how good she is so we will see......................

 

[TrixieLox]

Don't worry my dears, I'm not fretting too much. I still have faith in the spirtual world but I also have faith in my body to give me a baby. What they all did say was that I will have a baby one day so that's good. xx