3rd time lucky......

[MimiUK]

Hi all,

after a big gap from B&B since my mc in may this year. I am (nervously) pleased to say i am back!

I am currently 4 weeks 6 days. I had an emergency scan yesterday as my first preganancy was ectopic and I was having pelvic pain in my right side but that seems to be due to a huge corpus luteum cyst that seems to be agrivating me........

however i was lucky enough to see a 4mm sac on my scan!!! in my uterus so this time no ectopic which is such a huge releif i can tell you!! i think i may have seen a glimmer of a bean in there but the consultant was pretty quick. wasn't to pleased to be called in over the weekend by another nurotic preganant lady

so it is fingers crossed now there is a bean in my sac and it is nice and settled in there.

has anyone else had a corpus luteum cyst in early pregnancy??

love to you all and hope you are not all worrying half as much as me

12 weeks feels like soooooo far away!!!

 

[jen1604]

Welcome back to bnb hon.

Wishing you a very healthy and happy pregnancy xxx

 

[FierceAngel]

welcome back x

scan sounds promising x i know the feeling of getting to at least 12 weeks ive terrible week envy at the moment looking at other peoples tickers lolx

 

[MimiUK]

Thanks Ladies!! yes I have ticker envy too. I have also plotted out what event will be coming up against each week of preganancy just to make the time go faster.... i hope!

A heartbeat is my next goal! weekend away at 8 weeks, then 12 weeks after that. then home for xmas at 16weeks..... etc

lol just ticking each day off and studying loo paper like never before!!

wishing you happy and healthy pregnancies too!

 

[MimiUK]

next scan 5th October! i'll be 6 weeks then ..... wonder what we will see......i am going to sit perfectly still till then....

 

[stardust22]

Hi Mimiuk,

Congrats on your BFP!!! I am the same stage as you and also have two angles. I feel very worried and scared etc.

I have asked my GP for an early scan and hoping to have one end of next week. Waiting for the appointment. I just need to know there is a baby and its in the right place and all ok. I wont get alot of reassurance from it as I had a mmc at almost 13 weeks and I had seen the baby alilve and well just few weeks earlier. BUT that said. I need reassurance now!!

Its going to be a long 35 weeks lol!!
x

 

[louley]

Hello ladies,
This site is proving to be a god send to me. My first 2 pregs ended in miscarriages at around 6 weeks, im currently 6+4 days and trying soooo hard to be positive, but sometimes im beside myself with panic, also checking the loo paper like mad as that was first horrible sign before.

Congratulations to you!! i so want to be excited but am just a bit too nervous, and hate the guilt i just cant shake

all the best
xxx

 

[stardust22]

Hello ladies,
This site is proving to be a god send to me. My first 2 pregs ended in miscarriages at around 6 weeks, im currently 6+4 days and trying soooo hard to be positive, but sometimes im beside myself with panic, also checking the loo paper like mad as that was first horrible sign before.

Congratulations to you!! i so want to be excited but am just a bit too nervous, and hate the guilt i just cant shake

all the best
xxx

Hi Hun, Sorry for your losses. Its such a scary time! I am trying to take one day, actually one hour at a time. I am coonstantly knicker checking too ARGH!!!

Its not fait that the joy has been taken away from our pregnancy. I feel so robbed!
x

 

[louley]

hey stardust
me n hubs feel the same about it not being fair, i know life isnt always, but we should be able to feel excited/happy etc. Just seems that when i let my guard down things hit harder y'know? not sure how id handle another loss.
So nervous infact, ive done another Ptest a week after the first just to make sure it still read positive.....daft i know and only just plucking up courage to book GP appt, im fearing going for another scan only to see nothing again.

hows things with you? good i hope xxx

 

[stardust22]

I feel petrified, trying to "forget" I am pregnant. Crazy or what. Just cant face another loss either and I have an early scan next week. will be between 6-7 weeks but I lost baby later so its not a great help but its something and I need every bit of reassurance I can get.

Just praying my bad luck has been and gone (for us all!!!!!!)
x

 

[MimiUK]

Hi Stardust and louley!

Sorry about both of your loss's but also congrats on your BFP'S!!!

God i know it is driving me nuts all the worrying and waiting, i feel every hour go by at the moment.

I worry about feeling ill and worry when i dont!

yes i am still loo paper checking and doing tests which is nuts i just like to see the line darker.

i just hope as you say we have used up all our bad luck!! I didnt handle the last loss very well and i am not sure how i will cope if it happens again, poor DH

when are your nest scans. mine is on tuesday

love to you both x

 

[MimiUK]

Hi Mimiuk,

Its going to be a long 35 weeks lol!!
x

OMG tell me about it!!! I struggle to concentrate at work!! not sure how i will be able to focus for that long! eeek

 

[Round2]

So nervous infact, ive done another Ptest a week after the first just to make sure it still read positive.....daft i know

Don't feel bad.....I did a test everday for 10 days straight. The expensive ones too! I think DH would freak if he ever found my stash of HPT's. He doesn't understand though, I need that reassurance each day to get me through. Now that I've had an u/s I feel a little better, but it's going to be such a long first trimester....for all of us!!! Hang in there girls, we'll get through it!!

 

[stardust22]

I am proud I only did one digital at 18DPO and it was 2-3 weeks and I have not touched another one since! I did almost get lured in to another one when in superdrug stocking up on bio oil. Cant believe how much money I have spent this year with early testing etc.

We will all be fine. It has to be!

I am waiting for my scan date. It should be next week.
x

 

[louley]

Hey guys,

I dont have a scan date yet, still not gone to GP, will call them tomoro tho, promise
Im 7 weeks tomorrow, past my little milestone, although, not much of a comfort yet.
Had my last day at work today, have been made redundant, im glad just i can rest properly....well, till were skint anyways.

baby makings expensive huh!!!

We told our mums yesterday, felt so good being able to say the good bit without the bad this time

to you all

xxxx

 

[louley]

I got ticker envy Round2

gotta be a good sign, wouldn't of dared last week, tempting fate n all that
xxxx

 

[MimiUK]

You are one whole ticker week ahead of me so very jealous! Lol

Get your scan when you feel ready, the drs here are great they have a scanner attached to their laptop in the office too! It's ace! And as it is an insurance lead system the more scans they do the more money they make

I am also on with bio oil early. I have stretch marks on me legs so know there will be no chance I'll escape if I don't try and prevent.

I've told my mum in secret, dh wanted to keep it a secret till 12 weeks. No chance!! I will never last that long. Plus if the worst happens then I want the support, it's nothing to be ashamed of. That's why I hate the 12 week rule, its like your doing if for their comfort not ours......

 

[MimiUK]

Resting at home is only a good thing louley.
Just eat beans on toast and prenatal vitamins and you'll last for years!! Lol x

 

[Round2]

I've told my mum in secret, dh wanted to keep it a secret till 12 weeks. No chance!! I will never last that long. Plus if the worst happens then I want the support, it's nothing to be ashamed of. That's why I hate the 12 week rule, its like your doing if for their comfort not ours......

See, I feel that way too. When I got pregnant last time, I didn't tell a soul until I miscarried. But then I couldn't hide my grief from my close friends, so confided in them and felt much better. This time around I'm not sure what to do, DH wants it to be a secret again. But I feel like I should tell my girlfriends who were there for me last time.

TBH, I hate that most of our friends don't know that I was pregnant for 3 months. They just think we're having fertility issues. I don't know why, but it bothers me that they think that. I just wish they knew that I CAN get pregnant, just am not to good a staying pregnant!!

 

[Round2]

I got ticker envy Round2

gotta be a good sign, wouldn't of dared last week, tempting fate n all that
xxxx

Yes, I was worried that I was jumping the gun - but I figure I might as well celebrate this pregnancy. Who knows what will happen.