a 3year old, single, and pregnant

[fairyflowers]

so my OH left me today,
making me feel like a shitty person as they do..
im 5weeks pregnant, and absolutely petrified of doing things without him (birth, sleepless nights etc)
any words of wisdom out there

 

[Armooo]

All I can sayis that we are all here for you, ano it may sound stupid but if you need a rant youno were to go and you never know he could come back. If you dont mind me asking did he say why he left? Like my OH left 2 months ago and things are getting better between us, it just takes time especially if its going to go well. Just give him the time and space, and he will soon realise what he has lost!

 

[fairyflowers]

its been a long time coming, he said i dont care about him etc, told me to get a termination, even took the bedroom tv, in the end because he wasnt getting a reaction (i didnt wanna stress myself out so was keeping cool) he was gettin aggressive, in my face shouting screamin waving hands. i had to say if he didnt leave id call police.
there is no going back now, i really dont see us sorting things.

 

[Armooo]

Well then he sounds like a n*b, and the last thing you need right now is that! And as I said remember everyone on this site is here for you wheyou wanna rant and rave hahaha. trust me its gets easier and you have your new baby to look forward to

 

[Laura2919]

Well it sounds like your better off. things will be a little up in the air for a whole but once you get used to it things start to settle and you get yourself into a routine, as for the birth you've got a while so you never know what will change before then.

 

[Jinty]

Theres a reason that females carry young. Its because we can handle it

Oh god... imagine if its the other way round.

 

[fairyflowers]

LOL if the shoe was on the other foot the world would be more upside down than it is now!
thanks girls, xxxx

 

[Mammy2Joojx]

if that's how he perforrms just because he's in a mood & wants a reaction, thank GOD you were strong enough to kick him out now & not after having the baby! Men will go to extremes just to get a reaction outta women cos they want to know they've hurt us, but, we're stronger & better than that like PP said, there's a reason us women carry babies & not men the sleepless nights are hard hun i wont lie, but would you rather have sleepless nights & be happy with your 2 children or be stuck in a crappy relationship? x x

 

[fairyflowers]

definately, going to remain staying strong, i get REALLY lonely at evening/night times, but absolutely fine in the day. heartbreak isnt good for me, went out and bought a huuuge fish tank set up today, something to keep my mind on i guess xx

 

[Mammy2Joojx]

haha a fish tank is much more healthier than a huge wad of chocolate like i would've bought xx

 

[fairyflowers]

lool i didnt mension the chocolate because its an everyday thing for me haha, and sweets, oh lets not get into the icecream!

 

[Mammy2Joojx]

mmmmmm ben & jerrys cookie dough icecream .. Perfect morbid, deppression mood food haha xx