Bmama
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I have been debating posting this for awhile keeping the hope that my screen is a false positive, but I wanted to see if there are any mamas out there going through the same thing.
I wasn't even going to have genetic testing done, since our ds is healthy, but I have a new dr in a new town we moved to, and she kind of pushed it on us- as she explained "the quad screen is just an extra vile of blood". I figured it can't hurt right? So a few days after giving blood I got a call from my Dr's office asking me to come back in to discuss my results. Honestly I thought perhaps I had elevated proteins or sugars in my blood, I could never have imagined anything as devastating as the news she broke to me. Our quad screen results came back high risk for trisomy 18 and our risk ratio was 1/10. They flag anything under 1/100, and my Dr hadn't seen numbers like mine so high. Unfortunately my Dr wasn't all too helpful explaining trisomy 18 other than "it's a fatal condition" and after these results come back we need to speak to a genetics counselor. She didn't offer me hope or mention that there are false positives, so the meeting left me deflated and emotionally shattered. I do trust her though because she has been dealing with high risk pregnancies for 20 years, but I wish she had given me some hope to hold on to. We went on to have the panorama DNA testing which my Dr says will be more conclusive. I should hear back about our results this week, and until them I am an anxious mess!
Anyone gone through a similar experience? I would love to hear about it if you don't mind sharing, but I know it can bring up some tough emotions.
At this moment I feel at ease that whatever is meant to be will be, and I put my faith and trust in Gods hands at this point.
I wasn't even going to have genetic testing done, since our ds is healthy, but I have a new dr in a new town we moved to, and she kind of pushed it on us- as she explained "the quad screen is just an extra vile of blood". I figured it can't hurt right? So a few days after giving blood I got a call from my Dr's office asking me to come back in to discuss my results. Honestly I thought perhaps I had elevated proteins or sugars in my blood, I could never have imagined anything as devastating as the news she broke to me. Our quad screen results came back high risk for trisomy 18 and our risk ratio was 1/10. They flag anything under 1/100, and my Dr hadn't seen numbers like mine so high. Unfortunately my Dr wasn't all too helpful explaining trisomy 18 other than "it's a fatal condition" and after these results come back we need to speak to a genetics counselor. She didn't offer me hope or mention that there are false positives, so the meeting left me deflated and emotionally shattered. I do trust her though because she has been dealing with high risk pregnancies for 20 years, but I wish she had given me some hope to hold on to. We went on to have the panorama DNA testing which my Dr says will be more conclusive. I should hear back about our results this week, and until them I am an anxious mess!
Anyone gone through a similar experience? I would love to hear about it if you don't mind sharing, but I know it can bring up some tough emotions.
At this moment I feel at ease that whatever is meant to be will be, and I put my faith and trust in Gods hands at this point.