I quit buying advent calendars after we had our 3rd kid. It just cost too much and we ended up with little trinkets/toys that they never took care of or lost. So I made an advent calendar with fabric. I cut cute fabric into half circle shapes, glued two pieces together to make a pocket, strung them together with twine, and drew numbers on each pocket with a Sharpie. The last day is a fabric bag so it can hold something a bit bigger. I hang it along the wall or over a doorway and our Elf on the Shelf brings the treats for the pockets when she comes back from her nightly visit to whisper in Santa's ear.
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I found it was easiest to fill each pocket the night before otherwise, the whole thing gets too heavy and falls down. (This also prevents my kids from sneaking peeks at the upcoming pockets..Which they totally did too.)
As for filling the pockets....Along with the advent calendar, we also have a metal tin shaped like a mailbox that the kids can put notes to Santa or the Elf on the Shelf in and the Elf will sometimes leave a note in reply. Two years ago, our Elf (aka me
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) started leaving a daily Advent Activity for the kids to do and the advent calendar treat usually went along with that. Ex. If the Advent Activity was to go skiing through the woods on our property and have a cup of hot cocoa afterwards, the advent calendar had individual pouches of hot cocoa mix and a small bag of mini marshmallows in it. Or if the activity that day was to bake Christmas Cookies, the calendar pocket had a few containers of sprinkles and maybe a cookie cutter or two. If the activity was making Christmas cards for their friends, the pocket has a few sheets of fun holiday themed stickers, washi tape, and glue sticks. The Elf gets in on the fun too and her shenanigans usually are a hint to the activity as well. (When she tells the kids to make cookies, she often has cookie baking supplies out and has made a mess with the flour.)
This has worked really well for us and I like that I don't have to fill the pockets with candy or trinkets that my kids will only fight over or lose or break right away. Often, I have several of the items on hand already (cookie cutters, sprinkles, glue sticks) or I can get them fairly cheap at Dollar Tree or Walmart (stickers, hot cocoa mix, etc.) so I'm not spending loads of money on it either. I found a few advent activity lists on Pinterest and blogs so I copied the activities I really liked into the a Microsoft Word document, made a quick note of the items I'd need for the advent calendar for each activity, and I saved it on my computer. I have around 30 activities total so it isn't like the kids do the exact same list of things every year and I make sure to switch the order from year to year as well. But so far, my older kids especially say they prefer this to the advent calendars they used to get. It's more fun and interactive I think.
I will add that my kids are homeschooled so they have more time each day to do these activities so it may not work for others. They do also get one of those advent calendars with the itty bitty cheap chocolates each day from my mom so there is still a bit of the traditional advent calendar fun for them too.