Advice needed!!

[babybump002]

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 years. Today I found out I was pregnant, and when I told him, he completely flipped out and put every possible blame on me, and said things like " you wanted a baby, you win" and " this is completely your fault", etc. I already have a 4 year old son who my boyfriend has been a father to in the last 2 1/2 years. We got pregnant and year ago and miscarried and he didn't act half this bad as he's been acting today. he wont talk to me now, and just glares at me every time he sees me, we live together so its very awkward and im not sure what to do. Has anyone ever experienced a husband or boyfriend that completely acts like it was your fault that you ended up pregnant? Im worried his resent me towards me about the whole thing is going to ruin our relationship.

 

[brandonsgirl]

Oh huni, i didn't want to read and run. Is it possible he is just in shock? Were you TTC? Maybe he is just a little worried and freaked out that this pregnancy might end in miscarriage again (of course i'm not saying that it will, but men think in all different ways). He shouldn't be treating you horribly no matter how upset/worried/confused he is. Have you guys spoken about it since? Surely he doesn't still think its you're fault. I mean, it takes two to tango and all that!