Advice Needed!!! =[

[SehBerry]

is it easy being a single mum??

 

[Shireena__x]

bloody hard! lol but we get by

 

[Monkeh]

No, it's not always easy, BUT, I couldn't imagine sharing my baby with a man, so I'm happy

 

[sweetlullaby]

Nope not easy! If you're not well or sick you either muddle on through or have to call on your family to help out etc but its worth it every little smile and kiss and cuddle is all for you I wouldnt have it any other way !

 

[2bmum]

No it's not easy at all. Sometimes when I'm completely exhausted I wish I had someone who could take over for an hour, but thats what grandparents are for. The best thing for me, especially as Oliver has medical problems is that I get to make ALL the decisions about his care. I love my lil family and I'd not want anyone else included (except lil bro or sis later on)

 

[Katieeeee]

It's the hardest thing I've ever done in my life, but it's also the best thing that has ever happened to me Which makes it easy!

 

[Singl3Daddy]

i wouldnt know. sorry

 

[DizzyMoo]

See im a 100% single mum, I dont have no family or friends to call on when i need a break, or if im poorly or want a night out. Unless josh is at nursery 1-4pm sometimes 6pm then i don't go anywhere without either of them. If im ill its still me that has to get up & push through the days, yes it is very hard especially when you dont have anyone to take them from you at all, but the smile & each milestone your baby/children make just makes all the bad times fade, the good far outway the bad x

 

[bloodbinds]

If i was with the FOB i would have LO and him to look after - so in some ways it is easier!

Though it's difficult when you don't get a break. I'm lucky as i have a hugely supportive family so if i ever needed an hour to myself, or a night out, or just a nice long bath, then i know i could call on them and someone would help me out!

 

[nievesmama]

No its not easy. But very rewarding x

 

[lily123]

I wouldn't know yet... but i'm imagining not at all easy but very, very rewarding

 

[SehBerry]

Thanks For All The Comments...
=]
I Have A Family To Support Me... =] I Should B Okayy =]

 

[purpledahlia]

is it easy being a single mum??

Did you think it would be?

Its not easy being a parent full stop, nevermind doing it alone. As the other ladies have said - very rewarding .. alone or not, but it is harder alone. I have a supportive family too, but its still me who does everything, if your favourite tv prog is on.. i still have to wash and sterilise and make all the bottles, i smell of baby sick? but i still have to settle a baby and make sure shes sleeping/ok before i can PLAN a shower. Every little thing needs to be planned and thought out for me now, its difficult when your used to doing things as they appear/when you want. But i have all the smiles and cuddles to myself and cant imagine sharing them now. But yes, of course its hard.