advice please oh walked out

[missl1]

long story

well here goes for the last few months me and my oh/ex well probley long than a few months been not getting on or dtd after our son even before i had our son we just argue and cant agree so yesterday he walked out yesterday yet again but this time wasent a text or a hour he walked out without his keys wallet bank card car dident hear nothing all day i was so worried wouldent reply and phone went off he was due in work in the morning as he works with my step mum and near our house i thought i would hear from him but he phoned the manager at work who told my step mum also a manager that he is not coming in but will come in tomorrow and he was at his mums and brothers wich is about 30-40 min drive so i got a call in afternoon saying he was coming to pick his keys up and that he would have our son tomorrow afternoon untill the morning before work and that he wanted space and dident want to speak to me but asked how me and his son our as i have not mentioned proper we have a 7 and half month old son he is amazing so proud of him anyway my mum rang to see if he was okay and he said that he wanted space but he would speak to me tomorrow the thing is his brother never has liked me and tried get him meet girls and drives round meeting girls and going out evrey weekend wich i think my ex oh has gone out tonight as he picked his keys up all looking like ready for night out but then has cheek saying we can talk tomorrow and try and sort something out i am so confused what dose this mean dose he want his cake and eat it please someone help i am so heartbroken x

 

[sbl]

Its really hard to read with no punctuation.
Anyway, I don't think anyone can give you advice about whas going on in his head. You know him best.

Hopefully you can work things out.

 

[missl1]

i just dont know whats going on heartbroken

 

[sbl]

Well if that's what he wants then let him off.
My view is if a man leaves don't beg him to come back. If he's a good man he'll realise that his kids should come first.
Maybe he needs a night out with his mates? Maybe that's what he meant by saying he needed a break?
Are you guys quite young?

 

[cookette]

If he walked out, if he wants someone else, if he is leaving, then there is your answer. Dont pine after him, dont try to "win him back," dont blow up his phone or ask everyone and their dog about him. If he wants to be with you, he will be with you. You dont want someone who feels guilted into being there or doesnt want to be with you.

 

[missl1]

i am 20 he is 27 and its the fact he wlake dout had me worried dident ask how is son was then had cheek phone me come collect his keys and in other words say i dont want to know you now but probley will tomorrow is that another word for i will meet girls tonight but come back home tomorrow