all alone with a 2 week old and a 1 yr old

[Iwillbepreggo]

this is so sad I have a brand new baby and 13 month old and im all alone to make matters worse I have to get surgery to get my gall bladder removed until then I get frequent painful attacks that last 8-12 hrs which makes it impossiable for me to take care of my kids......Isnt this supposed to be a happy time? FOB is no where to be found I know he is out partying he knows about my condition and isnt here to help me this is so sad I cant stop crying Fob is out chasing women around in real life and the internet he never loved me I feel so stupid for having his kids now look at me........

 

[Jade--x]

I'm sorry you're going through what you are. I know its easy to say but you need to get FOB out of your head and concentrate on you and your 2 LOs. Do you have any family that could help whilst you're not well?

 

[Iwillbepreggo]

Thank you for replying, my mother will be coming next week thank god! Its so hard not to think about him I still cant believe I gave birth two weeks ago and he hasnt even called to ask about the baby and it really bothers me

 

[Soanxious]

Hi hun,, didnt want to read and run

I too brought mine up as a single mum, having to be hospitalised when they were small too.. I can feel your feeling low and that is totally understandable, and it don't help by having the new baby hormones rushing about.. and the love you feel so much for your baby you can't understand why FOB does not feel the same way (my ex husband was same when my son was born) Just remember this....

You and your children will be a tight close loving family... Dad's or no Dads, your children will love you no matter what... the love between you and your children is what counts, and your child will not lose out.. because as single mums we make up for the loss of love form the Dad.

I hope you start to feel better when your mum helps you out and when you recover from your operation.

Good luck.. and congratulations on becoming a mum again