Am so sad it hurts.....

[natasja32]

I have my baby Bohdis funeral tomorrow. Im so sad it hurts. Have tried to keep myself busy today,but just cant find anything to ease the heartache. Had my 8 year old in tears,he didnt want to go to his brothers funeral as it will be to sad,and he was afraid if he didnt go,his little brother Bodhi would hate him and think he doesnt love him....That was heartbreaking. How do i explain to my 8 year old that its not going to hurt all the time,when i dont even know that myself.....

 

[Laura1984]

Thinking of you tomorrow sweetheart xxxx

 

[Jkelmum]

Oh sweetheart I really wish there was somthing I could do I found this website when i lost my foster mum who was very close to my oldest lo xxx https://dying.about.com/od/childrenlossandgrief/ht/childcope.htm

 

[todteach]

we'll all be thinking of you and your family tomorrow. xox

 

[rachjim98]

It is so hard to try and comfort a older child when you are mourning the loss of a younger one. You don't have the answers and that is so hard. I am so so so sorry that your family is going through this.
I have a 9yr old girl and a 6yr old boy, the 6yr old could care less (which was kinda nice I didn't have to go there with him) my 9yr old girl was very worried about me and was trying her hardest to help make me happy. She has never dealt with death and the sadness that comes with it. She didn't want to go to the service because she didn't want to see me more upset.. it was already too much for her little mind to handle.
You poor thing I just wanna reach through here and hug you so bad
I will be thinking of you and your family tomorrow.

 

[jo_79]

My daughter was 6 when my little girl died and i couldnt explain to her why her baby sister had gone to heaven. Over the years as shes gotten older she understands a bit more now and even sits talking to her sometimes. I think if this helps her then i should let her.
I hope tomorrow goes as well as can be expected, my thoughts are with you.

 

[hypnorm]

Thinking of you for tomorrow.

 

[Barneyboo]

Thinking of you x x x x

 

[who's_mummy]

My thoughts are with you and your family for tomorrow

Gemma x

 

[Nicki2202]

My thoughts are with you for tomorrow

 

[orange-sox]

Thinking of you tomorrow hun xxx

 

[Peach Blossom]

Thinking of you. xx

 

[Chilli]

Take care of yourself tomorrow hun, lots and lots of hugs

 

[chefamy1122]

Thinking of you

 

[AppleBlossom]

Hun, I can't begin to imagine what you're going through x

 

[kermie219]

Thinking of you now and tomorrow, I don't have children and I can't answer answer your questions but I'm sure you will find your way. Keep strong

 

[jms895]

I will be thinking of you hun tomorrow

You have been so brave xxx

 

[chella]

Thinking of u tomorrow xxxx

 

[Staceyxxx]

 

[Sweetie]

will be thinking of you