Rashaa
Cautiously pregnant
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I have been quiet for a few days...last week I was super excited...very early on...about 9dpo I got the hinting of positive hpt...it got a bit darker the next day and then fainter two days later, so I called my doctor to ask if I could come in for tests...Based on my AGE and previous history, she told me that she wanted to wait until I was past the dates of my previous chemical pregnancy before I came in, at least two weeks past my next due period.
I was a bit upset, and honestly beside myself..I wanted at least to see what my bloods were and KNOW what was going on...
Funny how the family doctor is more aggressive than the RE...so she ordered a test for me on Friday and CC'ed it to the RE. My hcg was low..and the progesterone wasn't great... Friday afternoon, the RE gets fax of my bloodwork from the morning, and now she wants to see me on Monday! So Monday I went..repeated bloodwork, and heard the same spiel..of "I don't think this is going to be a viable pregnancy, your numbers are low..either we are catching it very early again, or it's a cp". So I said to her, you removed the fibroid, so why is it not helping now??? Her response was that my prolactin is high and while the MRI I just did confirms that I have no brain tumors..she felt that the elevated prolactin was not helping things.
She prescribed me Dostinex, and said that I need to start taking it, if we have another m/c with this one. She said she would call me with the repeat blood work results, and she went on to say that given my age, there is nothing else she can really do for me at this point.
Now during all of this ... my darling DH starts to PMS on me, and act like a total lovely arse! I am sure he is equally frustrated, upset you name it....We've only been trying for four years, and now this will be our third CONFIRMED loss, but the actualy count is a bit higher... So..I'm having sh*t from him, and then all of this...
Tuesday just confirmed what she thought to be true, which really pissed me off even more, my progesterone was now half of what it was before! and hcg was tanking not doubling...
I was given repeat bloods in a week, and to call with my day 1. I started spotting yesterday and it continues today....
I don't know what is worse, getting pregnant and not being able to actually carry a baby to term OR not being able to get pregnant at all...In my not so humble opinion...all of it is shite, and crap to go through.
Anyway, I am feeling very sardonic and catty right now...I guess normal emotions. I am so happy for everyone who has the and sticky beans, I really am, I am just really pissed off with my body, and honestly, don't even know where to begin.
I have done the best I can do.
I was a bit upset, and honestly beside myself..I wanted at least to see what my bloods were and KNOW what was going on...
Funny how the family doctor is more aggressive than the RE...so she ordered a test for me on Friday and CC'ed it to the RE. My hcg was low..and the progesterone wasn't great... Friday afternoon, the RE gets fax of my bloodwork from the morning, and now she wants to see me on Monday! So Monday I went..repeated bloodwork, and heard the same spiel..of "I don't think this is going to be a viable pregnancy, your numbers are low..either we are catching it very early again, or it's a cp". So I said to her, you removed the fibroid, so why is it not helping now??? Her response was that my prolactin is high and while the MRI I just did confirms that I have no brain tumors..she felt that the elevated prolactin was not helping things.
She prescribed me Dostinex, and said that I need to start taking it, if we have another m/c with this one. She said she would call me with the repeat blood work results, and she went on to say that given my age, there is nothing else she can really do for me at this point.
Now during all of this ... my darling DH starts to PMS on me, and act like a total lovely arse! I am sure he is equally frustrated, upset you name it....We've only been trying for four years, and now this will be our third CONFIRMED loss, but the actualy count is a bit higher... So..I'm having sh*t from him, and then all of this...
Tuesday just confirmed what she thought to be true, which really pissed me off even more, my progesterone was now half of what it was before! and hcg was tanking not doubling...
I was given repeat bloods in a week, and to call with my day 1. I started spotting yesterday and it continues today....
I don't know what is worse, getting pregnant and not being able to actually carry a baby to term OR not being able to get pregnant at all...In my not so humble opinion...all of it is shite, and crap to go through.
Anyway, I am feeling very sardonic and catty right now...I guess normal emotions. I am so happy for everyone who has the and sticky beans, I really am, I am just really pissed off with my body, and honestly, don't even know where to begin.
I have done the best I can do.