Any advice for a first time water birther?

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So I had a boring 4 hours bed birth with my DD, wouldn't say boring, but very quick,
this time wanting a water birth to labour and give birth in.

Any advice with what to take extra in my hospital bag?
Or any advice at all regarding the whole thing?
Anything you wish you'd done/not done

I'll be getting a nursing bra/sports bra to labour in the pool with and already have a massive dark purple towel for modesty afterwards.

Do you have to get out to pass the placenta? :blush: not quite sure what goes on there.

Thanks ladies.
 
I had a home water birth. My labour was very fast so only got into the water for about 5 mins to push baby out. They had me out of the water to deliver the placenta though.
 
No advice really, but just to tell you being in the water is FANTASTIC. I got out to actually deliver, but spent a good four hours in the pool. If nothing else I found it a great distraction. Also being able to move around freely and having that sense of feeling lighter than you actually are. :)
 
I wanted a water birthe with my daughter, but couldn't cos the midwife led unit was closed, then no one thought I was in established labour even though I was, then I needed a drip...the list of reasons against it continued. So...my biggest piece of advice is don't get your hopes up, cos it might not be possible!

As others have said, they get you out to deliver your placenta.

I'm hoping for a water birth if possible this time round, but I found a delivery out of the water just fine too, so we'll see what happens!
 
Thanks so far ladies.

As soon as I'm in labour I'm ringing the delivery suite and booking to pool for when I get there :haha:
If it's not possible then hey oh, but ideally, water it will be! Depending on how quick I progress this time.

I'm loving the idea of feeling less heavy and like a whale on a bed.
 
I wanted a water birth originally, then was told by my hospital that they do not have birthing pools and would not allow me to bring a birthing pool, but did have showers... so I adjusted to that idea as best I could as they are the best birthing center around that I have available to me. BUT then I found out from my doula that she has a birthing pool that she is going to bring to my house for the first part of my labor, and then once I'm going into the second stage we'll transfer to the hospital (if I can make it, the drive is 45 min)

The advice she gave me is:

a) If you're doing this in your home, make sure your house can structurally support that amount of weight. Filling up a birthing pool is pretty heavy, so if you have an old house, you might either want to make sure that the beams can support the weight OR just make sure you have the pool located in the strongest part of your house.

b) Get a garden hose. This is for after you're done using the pool and use a sub-pump to remove the water - it's the easiest method because then you can just snake the hose out the window to remove all the water.

c) If at all possible, have your birthing pool in or near a kitchen. Some pools can regulate their own temp. Mine doesn't really do much more than act like a thermos and will eventually cool down, so my doula is going to continuously boil water on the stove and add it in and adjust the temperature. It's easiest if you have easy access between the pool and a stove.

d) Get a tarp! Put a big tarp underneath the pool in case of leaking, spilling when you get in and out, etc.

e) PROBABLY MOST IMPORTANTLY: Have your midwife, doula, doctor, whoever is attending make sure that your labor is already progressing well before you even get in the pool. This is because it could actually slow your labor down or even stop your labor if you get in too soon. While your pool is getting set up and filled up, walk around and be on your feet as much as possible to keep labor progressing, then be checked to make sure your labor is progressing well before getting in, and make sure to communicate with your attendant regularly so they can make sure your labor continues to progress while in the water. Once you're in established labor, being in the pool shouldn't slow or stop the labor, but before you really get into established labor, it apparently can, so just be aware of this point!

Also, pp said don't get your hopes up, and this is true! There could be medical reasons why you shouldn't use a birthing pool, but otherwise, it should be fine to use if all else is going well! If your medical facility tells you that you can't use one just because it is their policy, like mine did, you can always get a midwife or doula and rent a birthing pool or use their birthing pool for the first part of your labor and do the majority of your labor at home and only get transferred to the hospital once you're dilated a certain amount :)
 
Thanks for the big detailed reply!

My hospital has a pool, I'll be in the hospital for birth, I believe it's the most safest place to be and couldn't get my head around having to be rushed in to hosp if needed.

My first birth was complication free, so highly likely it'll go that way again :thumbup:

If obviously I am advised against using the pool then it's absolutely fine! They know best :)
 
I'm giving this thread a bump and stalking as I'm interested in water birth too....... :flower:

So far I don't have any special clothing for it. Can I not just wear my nightie or a vest top?
 
I'm giving this thread a bump and stalking as I'm interested in water birth too....... :flower:

So far I don't have any special clothing for it. Can I not just wear my nightie or a vest top?

I just wore my maternity vest top. Mainly because I couldn't be bothered with the faff of getting into a swimming costume. I was already stretching to 5cm dialated when I got in, so definitely no time for messing around lol. Just jumped in with what I was wearing!
 
I'm giving this thread a bump and stalking as I'm interested in water birth too....... :flower:

So far I don't have any special clothing for it. Can I not just wear my nightie or a vest top?

Nightie might be a bit long? Will get heavy with water I'd expect.
But a vest top should be ok, I've got those packed as well, more so for afterwards BUT nursing/sports bra while in the pool, gives greater access for skin to skin everyone seems to rave about.
 
All was set for me to birth in the pool until last min (like pushing last min!) they said he was breech so I never birthed in the pool but did Labour and push..

The only thing I hadn't thought of was asked when I was in Labour was how do u want baby given? I hadn't thought this at all.. They asked if I want to grab baby or them pass baby.. I said me, the position I was in meant it was the only choice but I kinda got nervous about that but and didn't listen to instruction.. Basically.. Who is going to get baby out of water.. B prepared for it yo b you!
 
I laboured in a pool last time, the water really helped me to relax and offered some pain relief :) I wore a bikini and just took the bottoms off when needed. Got a bikini packed again this time! Unfortunately I didn't get to give birth in the pool last time as had to have help with forceps :( Really hoping that I get to this time!
 
All was set for me to birth in the pool until last min (like pushing last min!) they said he was breech so I never birthed in the pool but did Labour and push..

The only thing I hadn't thought of was asked when I was in Labour was how do u want baby given? I hadn't thought this at all.. They asked if I want to grab baby or them pass baby.. I said me, the position I was in meant it was the only choice but I kinda got nervous about that but and didn't listen to instruction.. Basically.. Who is going to get baby out of water.. B prepared for it yo b you!

Couldn't think of anything better than grabbing your own baby out of the water!
How amazingly natural and weird at the same time!
Thanks for that, I didn't think of that x
 

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