Anyone deal with an abusive ex/FOB? (rant)

[ellebelle]

My ex is emotionally abusive and manipulative. It's been a LONG road of going through the cycle of abuse with him since our girls were born.
Thankfully I've had TONS of support from friends, family and some community workers so I was able to gain the strength to kick him out and not let him back into my home.
He was abusive towards the babies (name calling, being rough with them when they cried) and he has an anger problem.
He wants 50% custody (so he doesn't have to pay support, right? right?!) But he has not proven to be a fit parent.

I have anxiety every day thinking about him having custody of them and hurting them.

I WISH HE WOULD JUST SCREW THE HELL OFF.

It sucks being a single mother, but it sucks even more having a piece of shit asshole dragging you down!

 

[JennyBLove]

Aww I totally understand the abuse :/. Im going through stuff with my man now, hes not abusive but in the past ive dealt with it with ex 's. I feel your pain. Your babies are way to beautiful n presious to go through that, what sucks even more is them not having a supportive father, n your stuck here knowing its not right to have him have any custody right! He will not get any though with him being a harm to them! Do u have any proff or have u told courts yet about it? It sucks n im sorry ur dealing with the pain, it does hurt I know n I couldn imagine having two babies along with the issues hes giving!! You seem very strong!! Thats so sad all he cares about is not paying!! Right!!! *******s. I was without a father my whole life n a girl needs a real man father to guide them, he needs to get his shit together n if he doesnt hell loose them forever, poor things, having to deal with his own personal issues. I wish u luck n im here to talk anytime!!