Anyone else ready to be done with ttc, even if it means no baby?

[readyformore]

We've been ttc for 22 cycles, and I've had 3 failed femara/IUI cycles in that time.

I really don't think that I will get pregnant again. I want another baby, but it's just not working and I'm trying to accept that. So, now I am looking to try to stop the pain of repeated failed cycles. We are considering my DH getting a vasectomy. Crazy, I know. I NEVER thought I would be considering a vasectomy.

I need a forum for "Wanting a baby, but accepting that it's not going to happen so we are permanently stopping ttc."

Anyone else considering going straight from ttc and fertility treatments to sterilization?

 

[Mas1118]

Hi There - 22 cycles isn't that long - I know it may seem like it but sometimes it takes a lot longer and going from TTC to a vasectomy seems a little severe. Maybe pick an age when you don't want to have any more children and if it doesn't happen by then go for it. I wouldn't want you to have regrets. Good Luck in whatever you decide.