Anyone have a similar situation??

[Luvspnk31]

I hope I won't confuse anyone with my story, here goes .

I am 36, have 4 healthy children, and am currently waiting to miscarry my 5th. We found out tues that baby passed at 7 wks. ( I should be 11).
Here is my dilemma. This baby was very NOT planned. It took us a few weeks to get over the shock, but we had. Just as we were Able to start feeling excited, we found out baby died. I am feeling very empty and lost at the moment. And now, feeling like I really want another baby. I know a lot of it is the hormones, and dealing with the loss, but I'm also confused.
Has anyone else dealt with something similar, and what was the final outcome/decision? Thx!

 

[babydust818]

Same thing happened to my friend. She gave it two months to think upon after miscarriage and realized it is what she wanted and is now 15 weeks!

 

[skyesmom]

there are many many women with your story in the mc support forum. and many many share your exact same feelings, and most of them went on having healthy babies! not because of hormones and dealing with the loss (although this also plays a role), but because their families felt complete with another baby.

 

[Luvspnk31]

Thank u ladies! I'm still waiting to pass baby, so really feeling like I can't move on to make a decision until this process is over. I'm not sure DH will be on board with another baby, but I'll cross that bridge when I need to. Thx for all the support!