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My DF and I been NTNP for 13 yrs with not one BFP ,he might have a slight issue but we need more tests done as for me,bloods seem to be ok
Anyone LTTTC over 5yrs with no BFP's
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Jai Me
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Hello Ladies!!!! Happy New Year! (Almost)
We have been TTC since Sept 2010, with no BFP's. DH has low morph. All bloods have came back ok, Lap/Dye all clear Nov 2013. DH just started taking Fertilaid last month. Hoping to get a BFP!!!!!!
I got my first period December 20th post HSG, I am waiting to O, using OPK's only. We are planning to continue to try try try for a few months then possibly move onto IUI or IVF.
We have been TTC since Sept 2010, with no BFP's. DH has low morph. All bloods have came back ok, Lap/Dye all clear Nov 2013. DH just started taking Fertilaid last month. Hoping to get a BFP!!!!!!
I got my first period December 20th post HSG, I am waiting to O, using OPK's only. We are planning to continue to try try try for a few months then possibly move onto IUI or IVF.
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I had a November period, can't remember exactly which day that it was but it was the first week of that month. I missed December altogether and it is almost time for the one for January and no symptoms of period in sight. Back earlier in the month, I had cramping and nausea. I have been having alot of bathroom trips, seems like I can't pee enough sometimes.
I have tested five times and all BFN's. This makes the fifth year that we have been TTC. We have an appointment Thursday because I did get a faint line, however I tested tonight and BFN's. I want this more than the air that I breathe. It is two days before the doctor's visit and I just can't help but think bad thoughts. I feel like I am going to be a walking hot mess when I come out of there Thursday. My husband thinks that it will go perfectly and that we will find out about the new little bundle.
Scared out of my mind, wanting this more than anything ever. We have to find out something this week because I am a recovering addict and am on Suboxone. The Suboxone doctor WILL NOT switch me without a due date from a OB doctor.
I feel like giving up if it didnt happen this time, but I have NEVER EVER missed a period for nothing else but a pregnancy. Maybe I just have low hormone output? I have heard of women who could not get a blood test or a pee test to show until they were like 3 months. I read some didn't find out until they were like 42 days late? This is what I am hoping for, I have had enough bad luck this year. I want something good to look forward to for next year. Ladies, really need some baby dust sent my way. Don't just send like pinches, send hand fulls. Bag full or a bucket. Maybe a 100 gallon drum full of it. I have had alot of pregnancy symptoms, cant lay on my stomach, urinating like mad, nausea, can't look at certain foods that I normally would devour, oddball cravings ( drank from a bottle of ketchup) and the fact that I am heading towards my second missed period. So I am hoping for good things here. I know what the rest of yall are going through, I feel for you. I will send gallons of baby dust your way as well. Hoping for a better next year.
I have tested five times and all BFN's. This makes the fifth year that we have been TTC. We have an appointment Thursday because I did get a faint line, however I tested tonight and BFN's. I want this more than the air that I breathe. It is two days before the doctor's visit and I just can't help but think bad thoughts. I feel like I am going to be a walking hot mess when I come out of there Thursday. My husband thinks that it will go perfectly and that we will find out about the new little bundle.
Scared out of my mind, wanting this more than anything ever. We have to find out something this week because I am a recovering addict and am on Suboxone. The Suboxone doctor WILL NOT switch me without a due date from a OB doctor.
I feel like giving up if it didnt happen this time, but I have NEVER EVER missed a period for nothing else but a pregnancy. Maybe I just have low hormone output? I have heard of women who could not get a blood test or a pee test to show until they were like 3 months. I read some didn't find out until they were like 42 days late? This is what I am hoping for, I have had enough bad luck this year. I want something good to look forward to for next year. Ladies, really need some baby dust sent my way. Don't just send like pinches, send hand fulls. Bag full or a bucket. Maybe a 100 gallon drum full of it. I have had alot of pregnancy symptoms, cant lay on my stomach, urinating like mad, nausea, can't look at certain foods that I normally would devour, oddball cravings ( drank from a bottle of ketchup) and the fact that I am heading towards my second missed period. So I am hoping for good things here. I know what the rest of yall are going through, I feel for you. I will send gallons of baby dust your way as well. Hoping for a better next year.
Nightnurse
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Where are you guys at now ?
I just finished my first cycle of Femara
I just finished my first cycle of Femara
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Hi, I'm 10 yrs ntnp and ttc, had 9 cycles of Clomid and now waiting for ivf in next few months, all tests fine I just dont ovulate regularly enough, wish I had asked for help earlier but was scared to find out any results stupidly, might not be on 10 years by now!
Nightnurse
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Oh wow ladies some of us have been here a lifetime,I hope that we donmt have to wait very much longer,keep us updated
Am currently on my second round of Femara
Am currently on my second round of Femara
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im on my 6th year of ttc #1. i had one lousy bfp last summer (5.5 years after starting ttc) that ended in blighted ovum. i'd rather have had no bfp than a freakin m/c. ive lost my mind since then and have only one person to talk to that understands completely. i guess its better than nothing, but she lives hours away so its not like we can take our bitterness for a girls day out or something.
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It is definitely hard to find support after so long. I am so tired of the 'just relax' and the 'it'll happen when you least expect it.'
At this point, I already DON'T expect it. And relax? I wouldn't tell someone with Diabetes to just 'relax,' why do so many people feel the need to tell me to relax with PCOS? Gah! Frustrating!
Anyway, I'm at 6+ yrs of TTC. I'm on my 2nd round of Femara and first cycle with Menopur injections. Found out I ovulated early from a CD12 follicular ultrasound, but did BD with DH twice the day before ovulation (like, just hours before I O'd), so I'm very cautiously optimistic. I've never felt such a strong ovulation before. Hurt severely! Fingers crossed for all of us!
At this point, I already DON'T expect it. And relax? I wouldn't tell someone with Diabetes to just 'relax,' why do so many people feel the need to tell me to relax with PCOS? Gah! Frustrating!
Anyway, I'm at 6+ yrs of TTC. I'm on my 2nd round of Femara and first cycle with Menopur injections. Found out I ovulated early from a CD12 follicular ultrasound, but did BD with DH twice the day before ovulation (like, just hours before I O'd), so I'm very cautiously optimistic. I've never felt such a strong ovulation before. Hurt severely! Fingers crossed for all of us!
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I'm on my 2nd round of Femara,i'm now on CD 16,Tried clomid without luck so I hope that Femara does the trick,Good luck and keep us posted
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I'm 10DPO today and all my progesterone symptoms are gone. Am I the only one who thinks 10dpo is the worst day of the two week wait? Ugh.
I have to be honest and say I'm feeling out. I did wipe this morning and there was just the tiniest bit of pink blood in two pink lines right next to each other. I was thinking it might be from BD yesterday, and maybe DH tore something, since I wasn't very accommodating down there..
Every post I've read about IB is almost always brown blood, and more than just two tiny smears. Guess we'll see.
I have to be honest and say I'm feeling out. I did wipe this morning and there was just the tiniest bit of pink blood in two pink lines right next to each other. I was thinking it might be from BD yesterday, and maybe DH tore something, since I wasn't very accommodating down there..
Every post I've read about IB is almost always brown blood, and more than just two tiny smears. Guess we'll see.
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Dont give up hope yet, sounds like could be implantation bleeding as everyone seems to get it different
I dont temp or use opk so I never exactly know what dpo I am
At the moment I'm CD32 and boobs have been hurting for 6 days, usual is 7-10 before af though on Clomid was all sorts!
This is first cycle after 3 months of Clomid, last time I had a break it was a 54 day cycle but wont be that this time as boobs already been hurting, I am feeling out though, I always do!
Good luck
I dont temp or use opk so I never exactly know what dpo I am
At the moment I'm CD32 and boobs have been hurting for 6 days, usual is 7-10 before af though on Clomid was all sorts!
This is first cycle after 3 months of Clomid, last time I had a break it was a 54 day cycle but wont be that this time as boobs already been hurting, I am feeling out though, I always do!
Good luck
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Everyone I talk to manages to bring up the subject of me either already being pregnant,or doing things to become PG,it is a bit annoying that all the talk seems to be focused on babies hope they are all right
I do feel a little different,but been suffering with cold.flu,allergies and severe reflux symptoms so it could be that,just hoping this happens for us soon
I do feel a little different,but been suffering with cold.flu,allergies and severe reflux symptoms so it could be that,just hoping this happens for us soon
So I did it... Finally joined a forum. This is so depressing. I'm only 26 with no health issues and NEVER been pregnant. I feel like crawling in a hole and...
I've been trying for 5 years now - lots of blood work, 2 hsgs, and just recently my first lap for suspected endo - but everything has been normal. My surgeon described me as "textbook perfect" after my lap. If something had been found, I would've understood, but now I'm even more confused. I've had 2 partners in the past 5 years and both are healthy with children from previous relationships.
My healthy in every way except obviously this. For a while I had really painful periods but that went away and my surgeon specializes in endo and found nothing out the ordinary and tubes were great as well. Only thing I can think of is that I've never gotten EWCM, but I tried preseed a dew cycles and nothing - not even a chemical.
What's my next step? How is this possible?? Is it not my God given right to be able to procreate and carry and nurture a child?? I feel like a joke is being played on me. I know you all are here for the same thing, but I feel so alone.
I see my doctor this week to discuss my lap further and my next step. As far as we know I ovulate fine and I have a normal 28 day cycle, could Clomid be in the cards? I don't think IVF will ever be possible because of the cost and because my OH doesn't believe in it, so I pray that isn't an option.
Any words of advice? Thoughts on clomid?
I've been trying for 5 years now - lots of blood work, 2 hsgs, and just recently my first lap for suspected endo - but everything has been normal. My surgeon described me as "textbook perfect" after my lap. If something had been found, I would've understood, but now I'm even more confused. I've had 2 partners in the past 5 years and both are healthy with children from previous relationships.
My healthy in every way except obviously this. For a while I had really painful periods but that went away and my surgeon specializes in endo and found nothing out the ordinary and tubes were great as well. Only thing I can think of is that I've never gotten EWCM, but I tried preseed a dew cycles and nothing - not even a chemical.
What's my next step? How is this possible?? Is it not my God given right to be able to procreate and carry and nurture a child?? I feel like a joke is being played on me. I know you all are here for the same thing, but I feel so alone.
I see my doctor this week to discuss my lap further and my next step. As far as we know I ovulate fine and I have a normal 28 day cycle, could Clomid be in the cards? I don't think IVF will ever be possible because of the cost and because my OH doesn't believe in it, so I pray that isn't an option.
Any words of advice? Thoughts on clomid?
