ARGH need a rant and some advice pleaseee!

[x-dannielle]

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[x-dannielle]

PS. does anyone like the name sienna for a girl? if so do you know any other ways of spelling it? thnx! x

 

[Laura--x]

Hmm. Maybe he's finding it hard to adjust to your new body? Or maybe it's the thought that his baby is in there thats putting him off? I don't know, but what he said to you sounds really nasty and he sounds like a twat!! I would KILL my oh if he said that. How can he expect you to go straight back to normal after giving birth to his child?? He should love u for who you are and not care what your body looks like.

I love the name sienna, i dont know any other ways of spelling it, i think that way is nice! x

 

[PixieKitty]

Give him a good hard slap and deny him sex forever. Seriously, what a c**t! If Dan ever said that to me I'd kick him out the house! I think pregnant bodies are beautiful, and tbh having bigger boobs always seemed to be a bonus in most guys books? Hmmm...

 

[nikky0907]

I do agree that he's being highly insensitive and if anyone,let alone an OH said that to me while I was pregnant they's be in a lot of trouble


Be honest with him,tell him that your body won't be back to normal as soon as you have the baby (it takes some time but you'll be a hot mama before you know it ) and see what he says about that. His expectations are very unrealistic and quite selfish if I may say.

 

[Tippsygirlie]

Arrrghh im angry FOR you sweetie! Men are bloody selfish and inconsiderate sometimes,
Next time he says anything like that say something like 'Will you have 'Grown' Anymore by then? if ya get me lol that'll piss him off!

Sienna is lovley, not sure about different spellings, the woman i live with has a 14 year old daughter Sienna is her fave girls name! Then she came out with Serenna aswell which i think is great too [not sure how you'd spell that one though thats the best i can come up with lol]

Tell your OH he needs a big kick up the bum and when he's th one carrying bubs and pushing her out then he can complain!

 

[Genna]

Love the name, hun! and as for your OH, i'd slap him!

Pregnant bodies are beautiful babe

 

[x-dannielle]

thanks girls
youv made me feel a hole lot better about my self! xx

 

[tasha41]

How insensitive of him! Does he realize you probably won't want sex for the first bit after the baby anyway, you guys are both going to be exhausted taking care of an infant AND you're going to have your period after?

Men are such tools

 

[esther]

Hey hun, just wondering how old your OH is? Men can be pretty immature sometimes - at any age! Don't stress about it too much and don't let it get you down ok. What you are doing with your body is the most amazing thing, and he will get over it once the baby is born.

I am fairly close with my mother-in-law and I often tell her the insensitive things my hubby says or does - in regards to cleaning and this and that and she pulls him into line haha. Sometimes you just need to get their own mothers on their case.

 

[Beth_18]

if my oh half had said that to me id of punched him!!! all pregnant ladies are yummy mummys no matter of their size or shape hun! grrr men

 

[LilMama2be]

How rude! If my boyfriend said that to me I'd be really hurt. although I'd talk to him about it, because I'm really open with him. And I tell him when its bothering me.

Hmm.. maybe you could have a heart to heart talk with him. Just say you don't mind if you don't have sex, as long as he doesn't make those rude comments!