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Baby Carrier

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Morning Ladies,

We are expecting our second baby in a few months and my son will be about 2 years old when she is born so I am going to try using a baby carrier this time to free up my hands more. Buuuut I have no idea what kind is the best I'm really clueless when it comes to this I never had one with my son so I was wondering which ones you have and what works best for you.

Thank in advance.
 
We have a baby bjorn one and it's fantastic. Far better than some I tried with my other children. I've not been brave enough to try out wraps. The baby bjorn carrier is really easy to get into and adjust and feels secure on you when baby is in it.
 
If you specifically want a carrier, rather than a wrap, look for any of the ergonomic brands, including Ergobaby, Manduca, Boba. Avoid Baby Bjorn or anything where baby is positioned with legs dangling down rather than supported in a sitting like position. They're bad for their hips and they'll also kill your back eventually. You'll also want it to be something where baby facing you (inward, rather than outward). Personally, I would recommend trying a stretchy wrap like a Moby wrap with a new baby. They are so much more comfortable than a carrier, especially for doing things like bending over, sitting down, getting down on the floor, etc. which you will do a lot with a toddler as well.

A carrier will cost more and they aren't as comfortable for wearing around the house or sitting down (if you want to sit down and relax at the playground while your older one plays, etc., they tend to dig into you a bit more and be less flexible), but the benefit is that they will last you longer. I can still wear my nearly 3 year old in our Ergobaby carrier, so for the added expense, they are a good investment if you prefer them. They're ideal if you're looking for something that you can use longer term (6+ months) and for mostly outdoor/standing/walking things, like doing grocery shopping, going for a walk, etc.

A stretchy wrap will only be able to support your babies' weight up to 4-6 months (at this point we moved up to a woven wrap, which again I can still wear by nearly 3 year old in). But they are probably half the cost of a carrier and more flexible and comfortable. If you did decide to go for a Moby wrap and decided at 6 months, when your LO was getting too heavy for it, that you'd like to get a sturdier wrap like a woven wrap, the cost of both wraps together was about the same as the Ergo by itself, so it works out to be the same. Wraps have a bit of a learning curve, so you might feel like they are hard to use at first, but you'll get more confident. I definitely think a wrap is easier than a carrier now, but it took some getting used to. Really you can't go wrong though as long as you steer away from the Baby Bjorns or similar. The rest is just up to personal preference.
 
Like you I didn't use a carrier with my first but wanted something for my second. I wanted something comfy for a newborn but wasn't confident at tying a wrap so went for a Baby K'tan which is sort of like a pre tied wrap. Both me and baby loved it!! Have a look at utube videos of putting them on. It was tricky the first couple of times then really simple! Baby is now over z6 months and we've moved on to a Beco Gemini which is more like a carrier. It is so easy to use and incredibly comfy to wear! Thoroughly recommend both!
 
It's such an individual thing that no one person can give you the right answer for you and your needs/style/comfort/body shape/price range.

For me, I only really like soft structured carriers. I tried ring slings and wraps and they just weren't my thing. Not comfortable for me. I would use a moby wrap for a newborn but would probably be itching for baby to be big enough for the soft structured carrier.

I really like kinderpacks, manducas and angelpacks are pretty good too. I loved my ergo original when Sophie was a toddler.
 
I can imagine the bjorn becoming less great once baby is bigger to be fair, my lo is only 2 weeks and it's fine for now. I got given it so quite happy to get whatever use out of it lol.
 
We have the Ergo 360 for our twins and they love it! At first they faced us in the carrier, but as they got a little bigger (around 3 months) they wanted to face out. The Ergo 360 lets them face both ways. It's a lifesaver for us when we leave the house...and sometimes even in the house. We love it so much that it even made my must-have baby product list. I hope it helps! https://www.theydontfeedthemselves.com/newborn-twin-baby-product-must-haves/
 
You can check to see if there's a local babywearing group in your area on Facebook - I know a lot of them having a library where you can try on different types, or go to a meeting and have other mommas show you theirs. That way you can see which type works best for you. :flower:

My MIL bought one almost like this Infantino carrier from Target right after DD was born, and I wore her in it for almost the entire first year without a problem.

I discovered Tulas this year though, and she has since been in a Tula Toddler - the support is amazing with it, I barely feel like I have her on my back, even when I'm doing 5k races. They're pricy, but so durable and supportive, and usually have a good re-sell value.

I bought a custom Star Wars ring sling for this squishy until they've gained a little weight, and then I'll be transitioning them into a Tula Standard or similar soft structured carrier, because I personally messing with the wraps/etc.
 
I agree with what everybody else has said. Stay away from baby Bjorn as there are much better options available that will be more comfortable for you and better for baby too.

I would say a stretchy wrap for the newborn period is great and then move on to either a woven - if you are like wrapping or something like an ergo or connecta depending on what sort of carrier you have a preference for.

If you haven't carried before try and find your local sling library so you can try a few options before buying. Also check out Facebook groups for babywearing as you can buy a lot of wraps/carriers second hand at very affordable prices, and even resell them on once you have finished with them.
 
Ergos really are worth the money. They're comfortable, easy to use, and really durable. Mine is a hand-me-down from a family who used it for both of their children and it's been through other families as well. I have no idea how many families have used it or how many babies it's been through, but all the stitching is 100% perfect and the fabric has held up wonderfully. It's comfortable and can hold my baby and it can hold my 3 year old. The only caveat is that it's not suitable for newborns without an extra insert.
 
I'd caution against the baby bjorn. It doesn't hold the baby as close and it doesn't give the hips proper support.
 
I have a Tula and I love it! They make a newborn insert . :)

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I have a manduca and it is absolutely brilliant. It's comfy for me and my LO loves it. It has a newborn seat sewn in that you just fold out/away, which is great. My LO naps in it while I do housework, cook and play with my older son around the house. I honestly couldn't get by without it. I bought it over the ergo because you don't have to shell out for a newborn insert as well, which makes it cheaper overall.
 
Please please don't get a baby bjorn or similar, they are not great for baby's hips and you will feel the strain from carrying them much sooner than other carriers. If you have already got one though Google the baby bjorn scarf trick it will show you how to use a scarf to lift the baby's legs into a more ergonomic position. For me when DS was newborn to about 3-4 months I loved the stretchy wrap, so supportive. I would put on in the morning and pop him in and out of it all day as and when needed. There is also a caboo which is like a stretchy but less wrapping and tying involved. I tried s ring sling but didn't get on with it however I know many people love them for newborns too. Since DS was 4 months we have used a mei tai with wrap straps which we love and a Connecta which we also love (especially the price). When he is ready I can see us upgrading to a toddler Tula later on. Both the Connecta and Tula keep their value really well and sell second hand for almost retail price (I've even seen some prints often out of stock sell for more than retail price!). We are waiting for our woven wrap to arrive at the moment, I've only had a play with one at a sling library but DS really liked being wrapped. Best thing to do would be to try and get to a sling library to try all the different types and see what you like and what will work for you as even simple things like how much stretch is in the stretchy wrap can make a difference. I loved the by Kay stretchy as it's not as stretchy as most but OH loved the cheapie eBay stretchy we got that I just couldn't get along with.
 
I have an ergobaby wrap and I love it (so does my 11 week old). They are a little tricky to learn how to tie, but once I got the hang of it, I haven't looked back. I use it around the house and also if I'm popping out to run errands and can't be bothered getting the pram in and out of the car for multiple stops. It's especially good for getting bub to sleep if she is having a (sadly frequent) day of rejecting naps in her cot. If I pop her in and stay on my feet for about 15 minutes it's enough to get her to sleep every time, and she will generally stay asleep in there, too.

There are some limitations with it - I don't think it's quite secure enough to do something like walk the dog and I keep a hand on the baby if I'm moving around. I'm planning to move to a more structured carrier once she is closer to six months old, but this has been super for a newborn.

It is expensive compared with other products - I managed to get mine on sale.
 
we have an ergo. the reason we went for a ergo carrier over a wrap/sling is because its quite straight forward to get on and easy to adjust so OH could wear DD too. he wouldnt have the patience trying to get a wrap on, on his own lol.:haha:
we all love the ergo here and wish we had of had one with DS!
 
I have a beco Gemini and am happy with it. It's structured and ergonomical. Good support for hips. It can also do lots of different carries (front forward and outward facing, back carry, as well as side/hip carry on both sides). My DS is almost one and we mainly use the forward facing carry on the front. It's a great carrier for 6+ months. For my next though I will be getting a wrap for the early months. I think that really would have helped me in retrospect as DS wanted to be held all the time and I was stuck on sitting a lot or had people come and hold him while I slept.
 
I'm using a close caboo (an easy version of a stretchy wrap) then on have a rose and rebellion to use when a bit older.
I'm also going to go to the local sling meet (very walkable distance, lovely and close!) to try all their choices. I'm really keen on getting into ringslings.
 
I love my moby wrap!!! It's truly been a lifesaver keeping my 3 month old on me so I can keep up with my 3 year old as well as two other toddlers I babysit. It was tricky at first but once you've done it a few times it becomes second nature. We also have an Ergobaby carrier that I plan on using when baby is around 5 months or so... never bought an infant insert for it.
 
The Ergo 360 is amazing. My 5 monther absolutely kicks off if he can't face outwards. The 360 is really comfy too
 

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