babysitter or aunt(female) and naked baby boy...gestures of affection and naked time

[Suzanne85]

Yesterday coming back from work I caught my 8 month boy naked playing with the nanny with the inflatable pool with flavour indoors(she was in t-shirt and jeans and he was butt naked).She also invited a female friend of her and they where chatting
Now, she is very affectionate with my baby whenever she bathes him and changes him, she tickles play-bites and kisses him on tummy and butt ... What bothered me was that she did not tell me out before and she did with a "stranger"looking my a baby at my home. Few times both babysitter and her friend had baby on their lap

What do you think?Shouldl I tell her something?
How would you handle a similar situation?

ps.otherwise, it happens that I find myself in the same situation with my sister or my sister in law
but they are relatives and so I think that even in the same situation is very different. With my sister or sister in law I don't see the problem if they do naked time or this gestures

don't you think so?
What do you think?

Thanks a lot
Suz

 

[Suzanne85]

up plz

 

[CaDad]

Wow
I would fire her immediately. That is simply unacceptable, do not try and rationalize this, you're dead on in your feelings!