Back after early mc - anyone want to be my cycle buddy?

[snickersbar]

After being overjoyed at having my first ever bfp, I started bleeding and cramping last Wednesday and have had a miscarriage over the weekend. Completely gutted but trying hard to feel resigned and positive. I really loved being pregnant for the twenty-one days I knew I was and can't wait to get there again.

We're determined to start trying again as soon as possible (as soon as I stop bleeding - thought it had stopped yesterday but has started again today with a vengeance ).

Even though this is going to be a really odd cycle until I get my first af again does anyone want to buddy with me? Feel a bit like I need some moral support.

x

 

[DAISYPRENCESS]

Can I be the first one? I am so sorry for your loss. In June I had chemical pregnancy and very often I think about how I felt thinking I was pg. U can ask me or tell me everything you feel like. Good luck. Xxxxx

 

[TJMYANGEL]

i will be also if you want x

 

[snickersbar]

Hi Daisyprencess and TJMYAngel, thanks!

How have both your cycles been since? Did they settle down again?

Going in for scan today to make sure everything is cleared and absolutely dreading it.

 

[DAISYPRENCESS]

For me it was not that difficult to recover. Wouldn't have known if I hadn't tested. The next month I continued trying. Xxx

 

[snickersbar]

Well I had my scan, all cleared. Need to book dr appointment for next week to 'have a chat' about it but otherwise seems ok. Even though I knew it was coming, it is still pretty devastating to see and hear that there is not a thing there, like the pregnancy didn't even exist. I was pregnant, now I'm not

 

[DAISYPRENCESS]

Well I had my scan, all cleared. Need to book dr appointment for next week to 'have a chat' about it but otherwise seems ok. Even though I knew it was coming, it is still pretty devastating to see and hear that there is not a thing there, like the pregnancy didn't even exist. I was pregnant, now I'm not

I know u feel empty now but think positively - very soon it can be full again .

 

[snickersbar]

Hey, how are you both getting on? Done/doing anything nice this weekend? x

 

[DAISYPRENCESS]

Hey, how are you both getting on? Done/doing anything nice this weekend? x

Hi snickersbar, I am ok. I am working a lot. I have been at work all weekend. I am waiting for my O to come . How are u?

 

[snickersbar]

I'm ok thank you. We had a nice relaxing day yesterday, went out for breakfast, went to the beach for a walk and then came home and chilled. I ended up falling asleep on the couch at 8 I was so tired!

Probably won't get up to much today either I guess.

I've got tons to do next week which is good as keeping busy definitely helps.

I need to take an hpt or opk really to check whether they are back to negative. Haven't worked up the courage to take one yet.
x

 

[rachel_f_]

hi snickersbar you commented on my post. we MC exactly the same day hunni... would love to buddy up ;-) xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[alicarr74]

Can I be the first one? I am so sorry for your loss. In June I had chemical pregnancy and very often I think about how I felt thinking I was pg. U can ask me or tell me everything you feel like. Good luck. Xxxxx

I wanted to let you know I got pregnant in June and found out it was a chemical pregnancy in July. It is good to know someone is kind of in the same boat. Good luck!

 

[alicarr74]

I know you are stressed, but do not give up hope even when it seems like it is best! One day all these huge hurdles will definitely feel worth it once you have your bundle of joy. Good luck!

 

[snickersbar]

Hi Rachel_f_, thanks for the message. How many weeks were you? We're on the old waiting game now for af aren't we

I finally did an opk yesterday and it was negative so I'm going to keep opk testing with internet cheapies until af to see whether I will o after the mc, and then when I get normal af I will go back to my cb monitor.

 

[DAISYPRENCESS]

Hi, snickersbar, how are u? I hope u are doing well. I am a bit tired. On Tuesday I had a day in London . It was a very nice trip for me and my husband. Now back to work and I am quite busy. I want u to know that I think about u . GL. X

 

[snickersbar]

Hi daisyprencess, I'm on thankyou, although a little hungover! My opks have been getting darker again and had lots of cm yesterday so hopefully going to ovulate, fingers crossed!

London trip sounds fun what did you get upto?

 

[DAISYPRENCESS]

Hi daisyprencess, I'm on thankyou, although a little hungover! My opks have been getting darker again and had lots of cm yesterday so hopefully going to ovulate, fingers crossed!

London trip sounds fun what did you get upto?

Hi, that is a good news. I hope u O soon. I had mine yesterday. I hope we caught the egg this time.
I was in London for a day because my husband needed to change his passport. We bought tickets for Big Bus Tour and we were all day on the bus . It was such a fun .

 

[snickersbar]

Hi, that does sound fun. I have never been on one of those buses, despite growing up in London, but they are such a good way of getting around and seeing stuff. I always tell people not to use the tube if they aren't in a rush and want to see some of London as you miss so much stuck underground! Whereabouts are you from?

I'm pretty sure I O'd last Thursday as had two positve opks and then they went negative again. Not sure whether af will arrive two weeks after like a normal cycle, so just playing the waiting game again. Feels so good to be back in the 2ww. Not.

Really struggled hormonally this weekend, been grumpy and sad in turns. When I was pg my moods really levelled out and I was happy all the time, so I'm really hating having the hormone moods again.

 

[DAISYPRENCESS]

Hi snickerbar,

I live at the moment in Liverpool. Very beautiful city. I just love it. Yes, we saw a lot of London. The trip was a nice break for my husband and me. I work a lot and most of the time I just want to rest but this helps me to be obsessed and a really bad mood .

I am happy that u have O and your body is going back to normal. Actually I also had positive opk on Thursday . Now I am symptoms watcher. But unfortunately I am pretty sure nothing has happened and I am just waiting for AF ;(.

About the mood. I hate when my mood changes like this. I am usually very smiled person but when AF is due I am rather depressed. Try to do thinks that make u feel happy. Xxxxxx

 

[DAISYPRENCESS]

Hi snickerbar,

I live at the moment in Liverpool. Very beautiful city. I just love it. Yes, we saw a lot of London. The trip was a nice break for my husband and me. I work a lot and most of the time I just want to rest but this helps me to be obsessed and a really bad mood .

I am happy that u have O and your body is going back to normal. Actually I also had positive opk on Thursday . Now I am symptoms watcher. But unfortunately I am pretty sure nothing has happened and I am just waiting for AF ;(.

About the mood. I hate when my mood changes like this. I am usually very smiled person but when AF is due I am rather depressed. Try to do thinks that make u feel happy. Xxxxxx