Back again! Looking for buddies!

[wishin4bump21]

Hello ladies!

After waiting two months I'm finally back TTC. My body is not behaving though which is incredibly frustrating.

I had an ectopic pregnancy back in November, had a endoscopic salpingectomy (my tube wasn't removed, just cut and the pregnancy removed), and was told to heal Dec thru Jan. I could start trying in February.

I impatiently waited, had a normal period in January, and I'm now on Day 55 of my cycle :-/ I've taken a pregnancy test and it's a BFN.

My doctor has prescribed medication to jump start my period and I'm hoping that this time it will take. Due to me traveling for work I'll start taking them next Wednesday in order to be back in my home town to ensure I'm ovulating (I have PCOs so there are more hoops I have to jump through)

I am looking for some friends who are trying also and want someone to hear their gripes, be a shoulder to cry on, or speak to for support, I log on constantly. I hope to hear from you lovely ladies soon!

 

[Apple111]

Hi sorry to hear about your loss, but hopefully your body will be back to normal soon. I'm just back on this site this week after a while away. I have found it so helpful over the last few years on and off. First after a mc in 2012 and then through the pregnancy of my rainbow baby who is now 2 ��. I'm blessed to have three boys , two teenagers who are just too cool to hang around with mum now lol.. And my little one. We have decided it would be nice for our youngest to have a sibling at a closer age to grow up with as his brothers are great with him but do their own thing now and they are really close. So here I am again !! I came off pill December and have had one cycle, af due 27th ish and then planning to TTC next month. I'm 37 so need to get started im not on here all the time as work a lot and busy with boys but would be nice to keep up to date with ladies similar stage as me. Good luck and hope you get get bfp soon xx

Apple xx

 

[Roxylady]

Sorry to hear your loss. I'm new here. First born was prem 2nd mc and 3rd on time but I feel I'm getting to the point that if I don't do it now itso not going to happen. I'm 37 and came of my pill I'm September. Until Jan I'd had normal 30 day cycle but on the 22nd Jan had a pink discharge with slight cramps and thought it implementation. Turned out negative. Got my hopes up as I am a week late but started with cramps and pink discharge again. I'm nervous incase I'm starting premenapous and my fertility isn't what it used to be and I should give up. But really would like 1 more.

 

[Roxylady]

Dope implantation lol

 

[ms sunshine]

Sorry to hear of your losses. Im in the same boat had a chemical last april and last cycle was 2 1/2 weeks late i had confirmed o woth bbt didnt test but was pretty certain with how i felt that i was pg then all my signs stopped and af today. Bit of a kick in the teeth since its took nearly a yr for the same to happen. But im dusting myself off more opks arrived today. Im also biting the bullet and going docs next thurs to get checked out. Have a feeling my progeterone is low too

 

[Apple111]

Hi ladies just wondering how you are all getting on ? Hope u r all well . We are a few days off ovulation so trying to get some little swimmers there to be waiting lol.. Finding it quite difficult though at the min and I think oh is feeling pressure to perform if u know what I mean :/ x I am trying to be relaxed about it but dreding a bfn !! I am due af around 24th I think but We are away few days after so might wait to test if no show by then x

 

[ms sunshine]

Hi i have about 15 days to o seems to be dragging lol. Yeah my hubby hates the pressure so i cant let him know when its o time and i have to smuggle and hide opks lol

 

[Apple111]

Such a drag isn't it!! I'm dreading tww...Oh glad it's not just me with oh struggling I was getting bit frustrated with it lol x he is really struggling if I don't get bfp this time I'll have to do same as u next month I think ha x he has lots of other things on though at the min as well so feel bit guilty adding to it .. I've been preping myself so much though as well , right foods, no caffeine, vitamins ect for weeks ..I keep saying it's fine we have ages yet so he doesn't feel under pressure but it's actually these next few days !! Ha I'll have to try and works Magic lol x we r trying pink sway as well , so can only dtd few days before o apparently even though I'd be just as happy with a little blue bundle .. I just already have three of them ha and this is def outlr last so we will see ️xx

 

[ms sunshine]

Yeah we are trying that we have 1 boy and hunby only wants 1 more. Hes 40 and says he cant cope being a new day again at 45 lol so this is it so ideally we would like a girl so trying to time it so we bd before egg.

Im down to 1 coffee a day no alcohol and eating pretty healthy apparently spinach isnreally good sonif i can get it in what im cooking i will. Unfortunetly for hubby as he hates it lol. Im doing yoga too to try and relax as apparently helps.

Went to see the doc today he has confused the hell out of me. He wants to do bloods on cd21. Its supposed to be 7 days after o.i always o on cd 20. I tried to explain its 1 dpo and he wouldnt have it. So dont know what to do. He says temps are sometimes wrong and i should o 14 days before af. I have a 10 day lp. I realised he wasnt listening to a word i was saying lol. So seems pointless going that early. Might see if i do o that early and if i dont ring up and speak to another doc see if its worth doing it.

Where are you up to are u in the tww?

 

[Apple111]

I was due to ovulate today but noticed I was quite uncomfortable on Sunday and did a second opk in the afternoon it was negative that morning , but this second one came up with smiley face.. Also temp went up and has stayed up since so suppose I am in tww about 3/4 days. We were trying to pink sway so planned to stop dtd on Monday but it was actually Sunday morning in the end sorry tmi lol.. So that's that out of window if I did ov that evening ! They do say that u ov after smiley so hopefully we might still be ok.

I know there are different sunshines onhere lol but I'm sure we might have spoke during my last pregnancy ?? My youngest is 3 in April .. I might be wrong lol..

What does Dr want to take ur bloods for is it checkling for bfp or your hormone levels ?

Hope it goes ok either way.

I'm bit confused when to test now as original af was due 24th March but wonder if that changes with ov early .. I must admit stomach is definayely very uncomfortable and had been a few days.. I know it's too early for anything but hopefully it might be a positive sign..im very aware of that area with havivg three boys and a mc in 2012 so I k ow there is definayely something going on but Like u said u can get yourself convinced then it's gutting when u get a bfn..
We will c lol .. I've not said anything to oh

Fingers crossed for us all bfp soon xx

 

[ms sunshine]

Yeah that would probably have been me lol you were in a thread somewhere else on here and i was sure i recognised the name. I lived on here with my last pregnancy lol my son was 3 in jan.

Yeah he is just checking my progesterone levels as i spot for a few days before af and making sure my hormones are ok. On my medical records it says i have pcos but no one has told.me that so my doc thinks when i swopped doctors my notes had a mix up so he wants to rule it out.

Yeah fingers crossed for bfps. Hopefully soon . Sounds promising for you i think 6 dpo is the earliest to implant so you never know

 

[Carybear]

Hi all! Can I join??? I'm 40 and still trying for number one... We've been trying for over five years. We had a chemical pregnancy in November 2012 and a blighted ovum May 2015. That was the worst pain I have ever felt...

We are trying but not pushing. I stopped temping and just decided to relax. AF is due in 4 days so I guess we will see.

 

[Apple111]

Hi carybear, sorry to hear about your losses , I had blighted ovum .. So horrible
But then I got my little rainbow and he will be3 next month ! X hope you get ur bfp soon

Hi to other gals x we r testing tomoz , fingers crossed xx

 

[Carybear]

Thanks Apple! We are believing that our time is coming

 

[ms sunshine]

Good luck apple and careybear hope this is ur lucky cycle!

Well i have od early think i must be 1dpo just waiting for my crosshairs. Least i dont have to rearrange my blood test.

Let us know what the test says apple

When will u test careybear

 

[Carybear]

Hi Sunshine... I plan to test Monday if AF doesn't come on Sunday.

 

[ms sunshine]

Did u test apple? Good luck cb hope af hasnt arrived.

Well i dont know whats going on opks and bbt say i od early usually i would i today. Ff says im 4 dpo and i had massive cramps near my groin amd in my left ovary as if i was oing. I couldnt even walk straight. Cant be implantation this early. Did opk it was dark but def not positive so unless it was yestersay but bbt says i od already so dont know what to think. Going for blood test tomorrow so if i have no progesterone we know why lol just wish i knew what it was

 

[Apple111]

Hi ladies I tested with a cheapy today and got bfn ! Did my head in all afternoon , I had loads of symptoms last week and now all seem to have gone ! Apart from sometimes stomach feels bit pulling at times.. No af yet and temp still at 37.4 has been this since smiley face on the 6th.. Hate waiting game !!

Hope ur all well x
Apple x

 

[ms sunshine]

Fingers crossed apple when is af due? Mybearly pg symptoms usd to come and go with my son so you never know.

I am seriously peed off. The new doc that sent me for this blood test failed to mention to fast for 12 hrs. So thats that for another month. Afm weird staby pain gone read it can happen a few days after o must be that it just felt like how it feels when i o (i imagine it being the egg being released). Im such an erratic sleeper so my bbt isnt always great . Hate it when i o early just fills me with doubt lol

 

[Apple111]

Oh no sunshine what a nightmare I would be well peed off as well. Oh well at least we can maybe be buddies next month ! I'm sure af on way today just got that vibe. I'm not sure when af due as od 4 days early which would make it due yesterday but original off cd1 would make af due Wednesday, ive given up to be honest this month I even had a coffee this am lol.. I go majorca on Sunday so plan on enjoying my holiday . Maybe sex in the sun will help lol Xx

Fx we get lucky next month ladies xx