Bad, Bad, thoughts!

[lemongrass]

Anybody else secretly with their DH/OH will accidentally come in them? The last couple times we DTD I was really hoping that he wouldn't make it in time to pull out and then I would get pregnant. But then last night I got thinking about how awful it is of me to want him to do something like that against his will. So I told him and I cried. He told me that it wasn't a big deal and that if it wasn't for our vacation coming up then we would be trying. I still felt pretty rotten though.

 

[kiki04]

Hey you're bad thoughts are better then mine! My OH needs a VR before hand so my bad thoughts are not as nice as yours.. Im glad your OH is so understanding though

 

[TwilightAgain]

Hey you're bad thoughts are better then mine! My OH needs a VR before hand so my bad thoughts are not as nice as yours.. Im glad your OH is so understanding though

You thinking of ding a DIY job?

don't beat yourself up over it, i'm sure everyone has thoughts like that from time to time.

 

[5_Year_Plan]

Guilty!

I wouldn't feel too bad about it- it's not that he doesn't want a baby, it's just that the timing isn't perfect yet, that doesn't mean that you wouldn't both be over the moon if there was an accident! I'm pretty sure it's normal to have these thoughts, even though you know rationally you're waiting for a reason.



~x~

 

[dontworry]

I think about it all the time. Lmao. Except mine are more about, what if I tragically lost all of my birth control pills and couldn't get an appointment for more!! How tragic!! Lol!

 

[lemongrass]

Thanks ladies! Its good to know I'm not alone lol. DH really didn't think it was a big deal at all. He was like "why are you crying? We're using the pull-out method, if we have an accident then its great!" I just really didn't want to push him into having kids before he's ready.

 

[Becwantsababy]

I know how you feel. I am not taking any bc at the moment and not dtd either unless he wears a condom. But we are going on holiday next week and I am due to OV on the last day. I am secretly hoping that we will get drunk one night and one thing will lead to another and then maybe even a baby.

I only think this as we are like you, we know we are ready and the only thing stopping us is the fact that we would like me to be slimmer before ttc so it really wouldn't be a bad thing if it did happen.

 

[momwannabe81]

Hey you're bad thoughts are better then mine! My OH needs a VR before hand so my bad thoughts are not as nice as yours.. Im glad your OH is so understanding though

Haha and i thought mine was bad but we both had the same thought LOL, mine doesn't shoot them out but they are there kind thought mmhmm maybe but i doubt he let me do anything LOL

 

[Inge]

I do but OH bes mean and just pushes me off before anything comes out I was in a mood at him last night for that - i was enjoying it then he pulled me up

 

[Webbykinskt]

If he wasn't happy with an early surprise then I'm sure he would be using something hunny. We all go through these phases. I blame our hormones. xx

 

[bananaboat]

If he wasn't happy with an early surprise then I'm sure he would be using something hunny. We all go through these phases. I blame our hormones. xx

Exactly, it's not a sure method and a risk we're willing to take. It's always a possibility!

I'm 100% guilty of wishing he'll be too slow or forget

 

[lemongrass]

Haha, good. DH doesn't really seem to care if he's too slow. Last time he said "I think I may have come in you a little bit." But he said it in a normal tone, like he was saying "the laundry is done." So I don't think he really cares.

 

[everdreaming]

guilty as charged. I can't help it, I always hoped for an accident with my ex!