Hi ladies
Apologies in advance this might end up long.
Anyway, I am not getting along with my parents. My lb came home from hospital and 4 days later they threatened us with solicitor action to gain unsupervised access because they no longer like my oh, to a baby on oxygen and just came home, first time parents and 99 days in hospital born at 25+5, So not feeling their supportive in fact never have been.
My main issue is my lb staying out over night, at the moment I don't wish for him to leave us over night. The other night my mother turned round and said " we expected to have baby over night by now, like our uncle does with his grandson" right here is the issue, when I was pregnant they promised to quit smoking, think mam might have but know my bro and dad have not, my lb has lungs that still need to develop to his age, they have dogs that are so noisy and he wakes at anything also they live 45 mins away and I have 0 trust after what they tretened when we came home oh yes and another thing they only come to see him once a month, last time they came in my home he started histerically crying, never changed a nappie and never fed him don't even know his routine.
My lb has his grandmother oh mam who has babysat for us once while at a wedding and looked afte him while we went to a development meeting, I would trust his to stay there and at his god parents but they both only live within 5 min drive.
Really sorry for the long post, my parents just have me feeling awful had me I tears the other night and I don't feel they want a relationship with me and my oh just my lb but they just don't seem bothered only to have him to themselves, which is nit going to happen. I've never stopped them coming to see him.
Just needed to vent, sorry for the rant.
Apologies in advance this might end up long.
Anyway, I am not getting along with my parents. My lb came home from hospital and 4 days later they threatened us with solicitor action to gain unsupervised access because they no longer like my oh, to a baby on oxygen and just came home, first time parents and 99 days in hospital born at 25+5, So not feeling their supportive in fact never have been.
My main issue is my lb staying out over night, at the moment I don't wish for him to leave us over night. The other night my mother turned round and said " we expected to have baby over night by now, like our uncle does with his grandson" right here is the issue, when I was pregnant they promised to quit smoking, think mam might have but know my bro and dad have not, my lb has lungs that still need to develop to his age, they have dogs that are so noisy and he wakes at anything also they live 45 mins away and I have 0 trust after what they tretened when we came home oh yes and another thing they only come to see him once a month, last time they came in my home he started histerically crying, never changed a nappie and never fed him don't even know his routine.
My lb has his grandmother oh mam who has babysat for us once while at a wedding and looked afte him while we went to a development meeting, I would trust his to stay there and at his god parents but they both only live within 5 min drive.
Really sorry for the long post, my parents just have me feeling awful had me I tears the other night and I don't feel they want a relationship with me and my oh just my lb but they just don't seem bothered only to have him to themselves, which is nit going to happen. I've never stopped them coming to see him.
Just needed to vent, sorry for the rant.
xx
