Best Things About Been A Single Mummy

[Aidedhoney]

Right ladies,

Best things about been a single mummy...............Mine as follows

First smile of the day all to myself
Getting offered that half sooked slice of toast
Warm wet drooly kisses
Knowing everything he does/says i have taught him

Best moment so far......Out with SD aka Bellend today and he takes Alex off for a nappy change......the whole coffee shop could hear my little man screaming, min mum arrives on scene the screaming stops lol

Am sure there is loads more........Whats yours?

 

[Laura2919]

The way they want me all the time!

Like you said, everything they know I have taught them. Cuddles, kisses, walking, talking, all from me..

 

[Aidedhoney]

Yeah and you get 2 times the cuddles and kisses xx

 

[purpledahlia]

my favourite is definately the morning snuggles and smiles all to myself! She LOVES morning time, after her first early bottle we snuggle in bed for another sleep and whens he wakes up she is just SO happy, its so lovely.

and yeah when she stops crying for me but cries with others haha

 

[frankyzw]

Everything, I mean e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g to myself. Don't have to resent a certain somebody because they haven't done this or that. Just a peaceful existence. Hard work but total bliss.

 

[scottishgal89]

the fact that im the only one whos good enough. if someone else steals her off me and she cries- i go over and talk to her and get big smiles.
makes me feel wanted, needed and loved
i love it when she sleeps next to me in the bed in the morning snoring away
the fact if im not there she'll look around wondering where i've gone.
looking down the bed to the cot in the morning and seein two little eyes looking at me waiting for me to wake up then when i go over getting a huge smile even though shes hungry.
there are soooo many things.
i love being a single mummy and am very proud of my little star

 

[MissEfendi]

I love that there is no man hassling for sex and being jealous because the baby has taken all of the attention away from him.

I love that my LO first word was Mum! whereas if the father was around, it would probably have been Dad.

I love Co Sleeping with my little man.

I love that I answer to no one, I am the boss to him.

I love his warm fresh breath.

I love his kisses and the way his face lights up when he sees me.

Being a single mum is hard work, but least I just have one child to care for, instead of two! ( the ex)

I would not change my little boy for the whole wide world.

 

[sweetlullaby]

Those gorgeous big brown eyes looking for me first thing in the morning when he wakes up then when I go over to him I get the biggest gummy smiles ever.

Not having to answer to anyone or explain why I bought something or have someone moan at me for "spending to much money on LO"

 

[bloodbinds]

Not having a man around is the best part! Lol. Not having to clean up after him as well as a baby, not having him lying around the house when you're running around doing things, not having him snoring in bed while the baby wakes for the 5th time that night. Not having to resent him for being a complete prick and useless person. :-D

Having the knowledge that i brought her up all by myself, everythings she's learnt she had learnt it because of me! And how she adores me because i am her mummy and all that she knows!

Not having to argue about money! I can go out and buy Bella some new clothes without someone yelling at me because of it, or having him go out and buy something (like a brand new tv when we already had a perfectly good one) when we are supposed to be saving! (grrr)

 

[Laura2919]

Not having a man around is the best part! Lol. Not having to clean up after him as well as a baby, not having him lying around the house when you're running around doing things, not having him snoring in bed while the baby wakes for the 5th time that night. Not having to resent him for being a complete prick and useless person. :-D

Having the knowledge that i brought her up all by myself, everythings she's learnt she had learnt it because of me! And how she adores me because i am her mummy and all that she knows!

Not having to argue about money! I can go out and buy Bella some new clothes without someone yelling at me because of it, or having him go out and buy something (like a brand new tv when we already had a perfectly good one) when we are supposed to be saving! (grrr)

I dont think I could of said it better!!! Your right.. Thats exactly what I did do.. Resent him lol. and your also right that I only have my kids to look after!
Useless person brilliant

 

[bloodbinds]

Not having a man around is the best part! Lol. Not having to clean up after him as well as a baby, not having him lying around the house when you're running around doing things, not having him snoring in bed while the baby wakes for the 5th time that night. Not having to resent him for being a complete prick and useless person. :-D

Having the knowledge that i brought her up all by myself, everythings she's learnt she had learnt it because of me! And how she adores me because i am her mummy and all that she knows!

Not having to argue about money! I can go out and buy Bella some new clothes without someone yelling at me because of it, or having him go out and buy something (like a brand new tv when we already had a perfectly good one) when we are supposed to be saving! (grrr)

I dont think I could of said it better!!! Your right.. Thats exactly what I did do.. Resent him lol. and your also right that I only have my kids to look after!
Useless person brilliant

Sounds like out FOBs would be great friends, lol!


forgot to mention one...

Not having to deal with the in-laws!!

 

[Aidedhoney]

lol, i am lucky my ex in laws are actually ok and my guess is they see more of Alex than his dad lol

 

[Laura2919]

Yeah my ex's mum and dad are lovely. they have helped me out with my place but I dont see them as much now obviously.

 

[tinkabells]

I love that when she see's me walk into a room she gives me the biggest smiles, the cuddles we have, we watch adverts together, she's learnt to clap, crawl even her dada's she has learnt everything from me and my family and friends.

Best of all she is all MINE!!! xxx

 

[Laura2919]

Yep. Its amazing actually. I am happy how I am.. me and my girls x

 

[bloodbinds]

I've never heard about in-laws that are actually ok!! Lol.

To be fair FOBs mum wasn't that bad. She was nice enough to me, only problem is now she is in prison for drug dealing. And i never met his dad as he used to beat FOB as a child so he doesn't talk to him any more. But they are not the kind of grandparents i want near my child! Lol.

 

[tinkabells]

I've never heard about in-laws that are actually ok!! Lol.

To be fair FOBs mum wasn't that bad. She was nice enough to me, only problem is now she is in prison for drug dealing. And i never met his dad as he used to beat FOB as a child so he doesn't talk to him any more. But they are not the kind of grandparents i want near my child! Lol.

Bloody hell yeah sod that!!! xxx

 

[Laura2919]

I've never heard about in-laws that are actually ok!! Lol.

To be fair FOBs mum wasn't that bad. She was nice enough to me, only problem is now she is in prison for drug dealing. And i never met his dad as he used to beat FOB as a child so he doesn't talk to him any more. But they are not the kind of grandparents i want near my child! Lol.

Bloody hell yeah sod that!!! xxx

Agreed!!! Blimey a grandmother drug dealer I am lucky. twins dad parents are great!

 

[lou_w34]

First smile of the day
That she holds out her arms for me when she wants me
Everything she has learnt so far is because of me
When she stops crying for me but not anyone else heehee
That i can make her laugh by dancing around the room pretending to be a bird.... (dont ask )

I dont have to share, she is all mine


xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Aidedhoney]

I've never heard about in-laws that are actually ok!! Lol.

To be fair FOBs mum wasn't that bad. She was nice enough to me, only problem is now she is in prison for drug dealing. And i never met his dad as he used to beat FOB as a child so he doesn't talk to him any more. But they are not the kind of grandparents i want near my child! Lol.

Oh my god.........speechless at that.